It's been five months since me and my partner arent together, but I'm still not over him. We were together for three years and have a two year old, its still hard and hurts. I just wanna get over him already. This feeling really hurts. Plz help. Want can I do???
2006-08-30 18:16:16 · 11 answers · asked by BABYFACE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think only time will help heal you here. That and a good night of carousing with the girls...
It's going to make matters more difficult since you have a child together, so then probably still continue to see him on a regular basis. If you think breaking up was a mistake..maybe he does too? Unless either of you did something heinous to the other..maybe there is a chance for you. The only way you are going to know for sure is to talk to him...but before you do, be prepared for any answer you may get....have your girls on speed dial. :) Good luck.
2006-08-30 18:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by loubean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had an easy answer for you. I miss my wife daily. She was the love of my life, and the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Family came between us. She divorced me after 10 years together in January. She still claims to be my best friend, and we speak on the phone or in person 3 - 4 times a week.
I cry every day. If you find a way to get over your feelings, please let me know how you did it. I cant take much more either. It is not good for a burly carpenter to break down on a job site just because he heard a song or something that reminded him of her.
2006-08-31 01:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by thisbe.dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a brand new boyfriend.
Really jump off the deep end.
Fly to L.A. for the weekend.
Spend the whole day
lying on the beach
wearing nothing but a smile
playing kissy kissy
coochie coochie
talking mushy mushy about nothin'.
2006-08-31 01:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by up all night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he'll never be completely out of your life - you guys have a baby together. I maybe harder to get over him since you will have to see him all the time.
2006-08-31 01:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard a quote once, "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." i.e. date others, even if you're not THAT into them and eventually, you will think of stuff other than the ex.
2006-08-31 01:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months is NOT a long time when a child is there to remind you everyday of what you once had..... do not be so hard on urself..... give urself permission to have those feelings and greive for what is lost....... write it down, that is very good therapy..... write your feelings, you will find with time they lessin in degree of pain...... then give urself permission to be HAPPY again....... God bless
2006-08-31 01:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to much of nothing, you're just going to have to ride it out. but don't be quick to find a replacement, you don't want your baby to have too many strange men around, and start questioning you when the get older.
2006-08-31 01:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by ms_mashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resolve the reasons who make u live apart.
2006-08-31 01:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on down the road of life somebody will come along
2006-08-31 01:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by bill h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love never dies... you'll never get over him completely but time heals all wounds.. keep your chin up hun... everything happens for a reason
2006-08-31 01:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by heidi_rammstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋