2 years ago me and my band were on a tour, and we had 2 opening bands with us (no, we aint famous). bu the rest of my band desided it would be funny to cut off one of the bands and get the driver pissed. i thought it was stupid, but didnt say anything. so we did. 10 minutes later we found the traffic was slowing down. an hour we found out why. the band we cut off crashed, and killed on of the members, who was a great friend of mine. i feel now that if i would have just said somehting we would have crashed, and i coullda been killed instead of him, which i would have perfered much more. i feel its my fault that i didnt say anything, but at the same time i know its not. but like i said, i cant help but think it was. how do i stop this feeling?
2006-08-30 18:11:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u feel guilty.but dont. when GOD calls u home, u never know when or how. it was just his time. rejoyce in the fact that he is playing 2 the greatest audieance of all time. it was NOT ur fault that his time had come. granted, it was a terrible way 2 go & certainly 2 witness. dont let that b the last image u hve of him. remember him when he was jamming with the guys & how happy he was . keep THAT thought in ur head. GOD BLESS & GUIDE U.
2006-08-30 18:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by big foot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's pretty heavy. I would probably feel the same as you, but it really wasn't your fault. They probably never would have listened to you. Just ask God to forgive you for your part and let Him know that you would have never harmed anyone. I'm sure that He already knows that, but it would be a good thing to still ask His forgiveness. Good Luck and May God Bless and Keep you.
2006-08-30 18:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by sammie-john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time dont have your friends do stupid things like this
I hope to god they dont do more stupid stuff Like this! Why do people feel the roads are similar to bumper cars.
you cant really stop it , just let time dull it away.
was the dead guy from bayside , by the way?
2006-08-30 20:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that feeling won't go away, that's something that you are going to have to deal with on your own, to tackle your own demons.
2006-08-30 18:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by ms_mashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋