Please tell me what I should do when i am feeling like i'm not wanted sexually by my husband anymore!It's like he's not interested in me at all.I usually have to beg him to make love to me! What should i do or try to change things!
2006-08-30 18:08:21 · 9 answers · asked by ladyrose70422 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Men are strange creatures. My husband goes through this from time to time to. It will pass. Talk to him about it. Maybe he is just really stressed out. If all else fails slip some viagra in his food!
2006-09-05 12:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE COULD BE MORE TO YOUR HUSBAND LACK OF INTEREST IN YOU AND ALOT OF IT MIGHT NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO IF YOU ATOL, HAVE HE BEEN UNDERSTRESS AT WORK OR HOME? That could cause a sexual problem when men get stressed, not to be person towards you but maybe it sees it as just anothing job mentally, it could be so many thing and don't think the worst unles ytou have proof; Do you still wae makeup and get dressed up for him or just do the comfortable thing? sometimes that matters, Try some on those self help book on renewing the fire between you I have tryed then and it would well, yOU WANT TO TALK TO YOU BUT NOT PUSH HIM TO IT THAT MIGHT BACK FIRE ON YOU. tRY TO GET THE THE BOTTOM OF THE PROBLEM AND THEY ARE ALL LOCKED INSIDE OF HIM, BE SUPPORTTIVE BUT HE NEED TO TALK TO YOU. One person canT fix a relationship it takes two so maqny think agout your self and see if there is anything you might be able to do to help too. Good luck
2006-08-31 01:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by melindarix@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try talking to him to find out what his problem is. Maybe he's having a "man" type of problem and is too embarassed to say anything. But tell him exactly what you said here. That should start the ball rolling. If that doesn't change things, or he comes up with some lame excuse I'm tired-every night....I'd start paying a little closer attention to his activites and what he's doing. Sorry, but that's usuallly a sign. good luck.
2006-08-31 01:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by tikitiki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How I live for that day!!! If he has been under alot of stress, having a rough time at work, unemployed, high blood pressure, or on some meds, he might not be able to perform. If he is spending more time at work, or on the computer, or at the bar, he is probably cheating on you. At this point, you become Mrs. Bobbit and make him pay for his indiscretions.
2006-09-05 22:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by redhot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things: he is cheating on you, or you are not doing your job as a woman.
tips: change your hair style, get a tan, throw away fruit of a loom and buy victoria usually strong colors like navy blue or red or pink or green, don't beg for sex, begging is misery- demand instead, make him feel jelaous, set him up, become a ***** to him, kick his ***, run him over, cheat on him... he will become your puppy.
2006-08-31 01:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by einsteinliam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him for sex anytime soon. Dress really sexy around him. Buy new matching bras and panties/thongs. Where it around your bedroom while dancing to music. Don't ask no matter what. Eventually he will be dying for you to sleep with him
2006-08-31 01:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separate for two weeks and join again. Both of you will miss eachother and love eachother again
2006-08-31 01:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by friscoboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a affair and practice safe sex, or buy some lingerie and do a lap dance for him
2006-09-05 16:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Glimmer__Man1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEAR SOMETHING SEXY OR LIE IN THE BED IN THE NUDE AND I BET HE WILL LOOK THAT
2006-09-05 22:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by CAROLINE W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋