2006-08-30 18:01:35 · 32 answers · asked by Korin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel that your present girlfriend is the 'One',you can go ahead.I do believe in fate and soul mate.If you and her are fated to each other it doesn't matter weather you just met her yesterday or today.Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS in advance.
2006-08-30 18:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by msshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask people if it is ok to get married you are saying you are not ready, you should know in your heart and soul that you want to be with this person the rest of your life. It takes a couple of years to really know how you feel, try living together before you get married have a couple major fights to see if you are capable of working things out and if you spend time apart and you miss her more than anything you won't have any doubts then marry her. Marriage should be taken seriously and with alot of thought if you end up getting divorced it is expensive not to mention takes a while and god forbid you have kids with her, custody battle, not fun.
2006-08-30 18:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly a phase of being in a relationship, love at first sight is possible. But at least you are waiting a year before marriage. During that next year you will see the pros and cons of the relationship. You may end up loving her more and more or you may realize that she isn't the one for you. It is a bit soon for the marriage talk but you both soon will find each others true colors and if you can live with each other or not.
2006-08-30 18:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by jewels_of_fire76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats my husband of 10 years were dating for about 3 months when he asked me to marry him and we waited a year to get married so no it is not a faze but it will take time getting use to each other and living together so don't rush into having kids wait a few years before kids good luck and congrats again
2006-08-30 18:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking? If you have to ask, then you shouldn't marry.
It's your decision. My hubby and I wanted to get married after 2 weeks and planned a big, beautiful wedding and got married when we knew each other only 10 months. We've been married 5 years as of the 25th and are going strong.
Only thing is... we both KNEW it was ok and neither pressured the other into it.
2006-08-30 18:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 3 weeks is enough time to know that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. You have time, don't rush into anything because you sure can't rush out of it. Life is a lot different when you get married and trust me it is not always all good. I'll be honest with you, I wish I had of stayed single. Good luck and don't rust things. Take your time.
2006-08-30 18:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by sammie-john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the rush? sounds like love at first sight or a FAZE!! if my money was on it i bet it all on a faze-sorry u should wait aatleast 2 years thats when things get voluntary and thas how a marraige is -its work this new in- love stuff is totally in-vountary and it will change
2006-08-30 18:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u r marrying now so it wud b bad to discourage u like other but the time u hav given to ur relationship is quite less. but the decision of marriage in the south asian countries is taken by parents wout the consent of the couple and most of them r ahppily married. so till the time u r both responsible individuals who understand the responsibilty of marriage so then its no harm i suppose.
2006-08-30 18:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
# wekks is not long enough to decide to marry,I myselve think your in need of some time to decide such a thing as marrying after 3 weeks.You may think shes right now but in a month you may feel different,give it some time,you may change your mind,if not i wish you the best.
2006-08-30 18:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your g/f may seeem like you love each other a lot, and that you have a lot in common. But in a few months, you will run out of things to talk to, and won't know what to do each other. So maybe you think you're in love, but you're probably going to end up just being good friends. nothing intamate. i suggest u hold off the wedding.
2006-08-30 18:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋