Will you still trust your husband/wife after she/he has an affair?

Answer 1

It would take time, but eventually yes, i think i could. I think this is only possible if both parties want to make the marriage work and dedicate themselves to being faithful to one another. Marriage counseling definitely helps to get communicatiuon started and to resolve problems, including the ones that led to the affair. Also, I think that the person who had an affair will need to be an open book to their spoouse for awhile until that person regains trust. It is also very important that that person understand that one lie could ruin everything that the couple is trying to work toward.

Answer 2

First of all, I am not married.

The key word here is trust. You did not ask whether one should divorce. You are primarily asking about TRUST.

I think it is easier to trust women than men. Men are less trustworthy.

If you have been in a marriage that has lasted for a long time, I guess it is easier to allow yourself to trust your spouse after the affair.

Personally if it happened to me I would be devastated. I don't think I will be able to trust her again. I guess it is easier to preach. Walking the talk maybe an entirely different matter.

I think a majority of people will not trust there spouses after an affair.

But, if she is hot I will carry on nevertheless... Just kidding.... ;-)

Answer 3

You may not get an straight ":yes" or "no" answer and you should be looking for one.
The reason being are:
Each affair has a reason for it to have happen. It has to be studied from the root of the cause.
As each affair could as well have occurred but may have different reasons for its happening. e.g. loneliness of the partner, attracted due to animal instincts, dare to challenge due to overbearing spouse,curious and impulsive etc

So in short it pays to understand why it happens and then only you can decide as to whether :
You can continue to trust she/he again
You are to cause to drive she/he to commit an affair

Answer 4

Being one not to talk because I have had an affair.I believe trusting someone like myself would be very difficult and it would probably take a long time to let that person gain that trust that the person once was given.Its a matter of forgiving and learning that people make mistakes.

Answer 5

i do trusted him but then the insecurity of being ditched again never left me and that provoked my guy to hav another affair. i talked to ppl regarding this and they said i m normal on my part and it was the fault of my guy for not understanding my insecurities and the fact that he is the reason for them,

so it is difficult but i thnk the best way is either to giv it away completely or hav an eye on him/her secretly wout letting him/her knw

Answer 6

No.

With any bad deed, the first time is the hardest. Once they've done it once, and worked through the guilt, it'll be much easier the next time.

Plus, as time progresses, they will only become better at telling lies and covering the truth.

Answer 7

Floyd & Kayla are you 2 having a problem ? Who is the one that went bad? Just get revenge and you will feel better and you both can forgive.Make up sex is the best.

Answer 8

i will be honest i use to say never but then it happened to me and it took a little while but i have learnt to trust him again and now he comes home when he should and stays far away from where she is at so yes i learnt to trustr again and we have been married for 10 years

Answer 9

check out the forums on the link below. sure you can trust the spouse, AFTER THEY have earned the trust.

Answer 10

Absolutely not. Once the trust is broken it is broken for life.