Why are people so jealous sometimes? I just dont get it. Do you get jealous easily? What kidn of stuff do you get jealous about? What do people you know get jealous about? I mean I know everyone gets jealous, but some people go really far, and get REALLY REALLY jealous of other people. Shouldnt you just get over it and try to make your life as happy as you can without being jealous? IDK, just a thought turned into a question, so please answer seriously.
2006-08-30 17:46:51 · 26 answers · asked by Brittany Revenge 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
People who are jealous are scared and insecure. Be true to yourself, and be happy with yourself, and nothing else matters.
2006-08-30 17:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by srrsmr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People get jealous because they get attached to you and are also insecure and possessive. If they have an inferiority complex then they can get REAL jealous. The love they feel for you is a dependent love, not an unselfish, caring love. If one feels good about oneself, loves oneself and feels that s/he is an adequate and balanced human being who is able to share with others, then their jealousy will be minimal or nil. When I was young and stupid, I got so jealous over an English dancer, that I punched out two guys on a London bus. Let me toss this in at the end. I took revenge on my Englist dancer for doing what she did to me, and now I am very, very sorry. The Chinese say 'If you seek revenge, dig two graves' and that is exactly what happened to her and me.
2006-08-31 01:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Corky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cus those people get really insecure in there mind and then they don't trust one another..Jealousy comes from being insecure with ones self making then feel like they are not good enough and that this other person is better then they are.
It's really hard to over come insecuritys about yourself..I know cus i'm still trying..
2006-08-31 00:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I do envy some other and people said that being jealous is the other side of envy. I guess when someone just don't have 'open mind' and can't accept the truth that there are people better and can't be happy with what they have...
I envy some people with what they have, but still, I cherish whatever I have.
2006-08-31 00:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get jealous over stupid reason, I'ts not your fault they just want something to do with their lives. For now on just say don't hate me, congrulate because I'm doing my thing to the fullest. And walk off and smile.
2006-08-31 00:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by ronrmrll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i make myself happy without being jealous, i dont get jealous at anything, but if i ever did get jealous it would be over a girl, but i dont get jealous because i know that person will someday lay me.
2006-08-31 00:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people get jealous because they want to be better than other ppl.
ppl get jealous then they spread rumors about you. They Spread Rumors, this is the worst part and they have a bad bad feeling toward u.
2006-08-31 00:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by fsgqhj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this right now at work.. There is a younger girl there who asks me where i buy my clothes, and then goes and purchases the same thing! She makes fun of the way I dress behind my back...LOL That doesnt add up huh? LOL You just have to look over it and dont tell them where you shop!!!!! LOL
2006-08-31 00:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by ROO! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am those guys that dont get jealous in a relationship. i let my girl go out with other guys but if i find out she did something with them i dont give a second chance. its over! i dont get jealous because im not the person losing someone smart, handsome, humble, intelligent, nice like my girl is. I mean if it was meant for us she has to see what guys r out there, i dont want to trap her with me. she should see with her own eyes what a great guy i am in all ways.
2006-08-31 00:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by calidude5592000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ppl get jealous because of insecurities.
Prsn who is happy with himself never feels jealous...
2006-08-31 01:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by SMITA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋