Were you inspired/encouraged by someone to do this? I came out to my mom on my own, on Christmas of 1999. Merry Christmas mom!
2006-08-30 17:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by justincausejustintime 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I first came out to the woman I was madly in love with when I was 19. She inspired me to do it by being so damn attractive. The next person I came out to was my boyfriend at the time, when I broke up with him.
The parents were definitely the hardest though. That was almost a year later. Sometimes they come around and sometimes they don't...I hope your experience was a positive one and your mother embraced you as the person you truly are, even if she didn't agree. :-)
2006-08-31 02:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by tsdeck5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I came out to a guy I met online back when I was 15 (6 years ago) nothing I can call inspiring, I actually found out more about the whole scene and other people on my own and like that everything worked out and became familiar and I became more confident in who I was and what I wanted in my life! right now I am 80 percent out of the closet I still havent told the two most important people in my life, my parents. I know I should I am very sure of who I am but I know I have to wait for a perfect moment, I can also feel that is very soon! =D
2006-08-31 01:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by antoni_m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came out to my family during a surprise party that was thrown for me. I was turning 18 the next day, and thought that it would be a good way to start my adult life. Surprise!!!!, indeed. Great question. I really wasn't inspired by anyone, I just felt like it was the right time. I felt better afterward. Thanks for sparking the memory, hun.
2006-08-31 03:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by urbania05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 I came out (As a bisexual man) to my then-girlfriend. And no we didn't break up because of that!
2006-08-31 01:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by collegedebt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL, i was in high school and it was my best friend carlos and he was gay also, but we told eachother after we had smuggled a hetero porn in the choir room and were watching it while our teacher was in class and we confessed that we didnt get off on girls but we liked the dick!!! LOL in school
2006-08-31 01:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by kaikai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never officially came out i dont really believe in it, should heteros have to have an initiation to their status?i just tongued another guys booty at a party and loved it ever since
2006-08-31 01:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by whynotasklongdon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i came out to my friend mathew so he could help me to date his friend. it was in 1995. i was 20. my mom found out from someone else ....but shes great i recently got married and she walked me down the aisle..
2006-08-31 03:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by ladielez73580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, *man*! How did she take that?
For me, it was when I was 15, after she'd assured me that I could talk to her about anything. She didn't mean liking girls, unfortunately.
2006-08-31 01:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋