I've got many reasons but one of my main concerns is no longer being attractive. I am afraid that after 25 I will no longer be attractive and liked by the men.
These days I've noticed that men love younger women, and not only younger by a year or two but literally YOUNG women (in their teens 16-19 and early 20's).
I'm just so afraid that once I get married my husband will run off and cheat on me with a younger woman.
I'm also just afraid of aging all together. To me, only the teens and 20's seem youthful, fun, and beautiful (for women).
I do like older men, though. My current boyfriend is 31 but I do worry about the future and fear that I will be lonely my whole life.
Are there any men out there who are attracted to women their own age? (Men 35+)
2006-08-30 17:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm only 18 so I know i'm very, very young but I always contemplate life and think of the future.
Oh and to those of you who gave rude answers, you have been reported. This is just an honest, sincere question. Get a life.
2006-08-30 17:43:07 · update #1
Yes it is normal. Ageing makes us realise our mortality and that death will be coming.
In most cases people fear death because its an end.
2006-08-30 17:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think about this all the time and I'm 19. It's sad, really, how we are all so obsessd with beauty, but screw it. It's nice to look good and it'll always be that way.
What usually comforts me is this; If you haven't noticed, people have started looking older at a much later age than they were oh say a couple decades ago. Look at old college year books and such, you'll see what I mean.
Just enjoy it while you can and don't let anyone tell you that you can't be gorgeous after 40. I have seen it and I'm sure you have to without even realizing it. This doesn't mean go get plastic surgery but as long as you don't smoke, eat right and take the right preparations (GOOD lotions/skin treatments that prevent wrinkles), I promise your beauty will last for decades to come.
2006-08-30 17:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by blitz1228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to start feeling "old" yet. You are trying way too hard to fit an image that you think your husband will consider the perfect mate. Even if you are 19 and get married, your husband is far more likely to "run off" with someone else than if he married someone in their mid 20s. If a guy is really ready to settle down and have a family he won't be trying to chase every school girl he sees.
2006-08-30 17:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, i'm only 38 and looking forward to grandchildren in a few more years! I dont see any reason why you'd panic at the thought of being/growing old. People can grow old gracefully and that includes accepting that ageing is a natural process in life. You need to talk to somebody you trust about this, there might be underlying reasons for your "inferiority complex" about ageing. maybe something happened in the past that has your subconscious into panic mode everytime you think of your age.
2006-08-30 17:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by true68 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there ain't nothing wrong in getting older it's just the way u take care of ur self if u take care of yourself propely no one will notice the difference in u from now till to ten years later that is if u use the right beauty and skin products.and if you husband really loves you he won't care how u look
2006-08-30 17:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think ur bf will leave u trust me ull allways be the same person as ur were 10 years ago ulll beuatifull age doent make a difference ulll always look sexy as u get older
2006-08-30 17:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by tpowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to slow down aging read this and live to dietary standards of the time:
Genesis 1:28-30 (King James Version)
28And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
29And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.
30And to every beast of the earth, and to every fowl of the air, and to every thing that creepeth upon the earth, wherein there is life, I have given every green herb for meat: and it was so.
2006-08-30 17:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And think of all this time you've wasted on Yahoo! Answers, tsk, tsk, tsk... Oh, and for the record, the right guy shouldn't care how old you look, get the picture?
2006-08-30 17:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea! everybody has different preferences. there are guys who are always into their chick, swingers, young guys attracted to older women, and guys who love you for you no matter what you look like because you are so cool.
2006-08-30 17:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So world poverty, starving children, the threat of nuclear war,
of these things you are not afraid. You are sooooooooo lucky.
2006-08-30 17:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋