I wanted to know what others think about this question. The hard core fact divorce is wrong and people who gets divorce has hardness of heart. God did premmited divorce because of the hardness of people's hearts. God is the one who made marriage in the first place. God hates divorce but he does not hate people. God hates sins.God loves all of us that is why he sended his only forgetten son to die on the cross for all of our sins. We need to truly repent from our sins & take his son to be our Lord of all of our life. That means if someone remarried after divorce they are in adultery & have to truly repent from it & go back to their true spouce God gave them in the first place. That is the hard core truth. You know the truth and the truth will set you free. Who wants to be totally free ? It's 2 sides here & it come down to which side do you really want to be on. Who do you want to obey & to trust in. Hope many will go back to their true spouce & true families God gave them .
2006-08-30 17:13:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God sent His only Begotten Son, for whosoever believed in Him shall inherit eternal life. Divorce as at it's highest rate because all the morals have been lost. Families today are more preoccupied in material goods than raising a family dedicated to God.
Along with the divorce statistics is the crime rate. Children look to find love out on the streets, because mom and dad are too busy working to give them "everything they need".
May God have Mercy on families today.
2006-08-30 17:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God gave reasons for remarriage, It was when your spouse dies, but as long as your spouse lives you are bound by the vows you took, the Bible says it isbetter not to make a vow, then to make one and break it. Now about the divorce because of being beat, or the kids being beat, this is hardness of heart, you can divorce him, but you can`t remarry till he dies, these are not my words , but GODS. I am in the same boat with a lot of other people here, i am seperated from my husband, and have been for 4 years, and I can`t remerry and go to heaven, Inless someting were to happen to him, and God forbid that happens. I can have frinds, I can love, I just can`t remarry, or have sex. SO WHAT, its no big deal. I think boredom causes most divorces, you know when we first marry we feel this tingle in the body , but as time goes by we get comfortable with our spouse, and that don`t happen anymore, but thats going to happen in any relationship over time, then your back in the same boat, if the grass was greener on the other side, why would there be over 50 percent of people that have remarried, have done it more then once.
2006-08-30 17:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conflict or anger itself does not have to cause an irreparable rift between partners. With good communication skills and a shared commitment to a marriage, even these are surmountable. How to save your marriage https://tr.im/QiNVW
However, at that point where one partner is at the brink of abandoning the relationship, how can the remaining partner save their marriage? If you are at the point where your spouse has asked for a divorce, what can you do?
You must realize first that, you do have a choice. Often, when confronted by a crisis, we find ourselves backed into a corner thinking we have no choice in the matter. How can we change the situation when it involves another person's feelings or decisions? While we cannot, must not and in no way manipulate, blackmail or threaten our partner into changing their mind, we can actually control how we react to the situation. If anything, you must realize that you still have control over yourself. You have the opportunity to look inward and take responsibility for your own feelings and actions and even have the chance to take personal inventory of what your partner is trying to tell you. Are there points in your marriage that must be changed? If so, respond appropriately and proactively.
2016-02-11 11:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Robbyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all is it ok to stay married to someone who physically and emotionally abuses you and your children? How do you know god hates divorce? did he tell you ? If he actually hated it, and didnt want it around he would have not permited it in the first place. Divorce has become to easy so marriage is more attractive to poeple so they rush into it. Remariage is ordained by the churches, so you know more about god than the pope? I do not wish to sound rude but you seem to presume a lot, and I appologize for how this may sound, but why ask a question on here if you just wanted to post your own answer.
2006-08-30 17:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To put it bluntly -- there are situations where I am sure that GOD WOULD NEVER allow that person to feel guilty about divorcing -- especially where one of the spouses is Assaulting/Battering the other and threatening/battering/assaulting the children. Same with Adultery -- why would God want a faithful, god-fearing person to be forever chained to a Cheating, low-life spouse?
These are just a couple of examples -- and I am OFFENDED when the "Holier than Thou" attitude arises -- because my ex did COMMIT Adultery, DID Abuse/Assault/Batter, and DID Batter my children -- and even now, long after the divorce -- robbed my personal residence.
Would God tell me that I have a hardness of heart because I got out of that situation (and believe me -- it is only by the grace of God that I am alive to write this, because he DID return to continue robbing my residence when the officer was in my home with me when I discovered the robbery).
God (I feel) does not want me to repent -- he SAVED my life so that I can continue to be a model for my children -- and lead them to God-Fearing Lives (and, unfortunately, one of my adult children participated willingly in the robbery -- so yes, I did tell the police I wanted them charged too). This is the "HARD CORE TRUTH" -- and NOT the Truth that one may be looking for.
So sometimes we have these unfortunate situations -- all because they are tests -- tests of our faith -- tests designed to ensure that we stay morally correct, tests that open the path to his presence that we will be blessed with when our end of life finally comes.
2006-08-30 18:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God is not an objective concept, but a construct of people's collective mind. Divorce is the reality in this day and age. It is true that everyone should to take responsibility for their actions - but god has nothing to do with it.
2006-08-30 17:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have been married 7 years the last 8 months my wife has been dateing other people she says she has found the one she loves. I have kept true to my word and havent even began to look. It is very hard. I love her. I can't leave her no matter who says I should
2006-08-30 17:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by dan s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that divorce just has become too easy. too much like a business transaction. I think that divorce shouldn't be classified as "wrong" but i think people need to work a lot harder to work things out
2006-08-30 17:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes! i believe divorce is destroying ordained marriages. Sometimes divorce is necessary in order to bring happiness.
2006-08-30 17:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question would be why God didn't give you the common sense to use a spell check when you write something completely stupid.
2006-08-30 17:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋