2006-08-30 17:10:24 · 25 answers · asked by shabrezzy26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him you need time apart to think. Tell him you need to sort out some things in your head and right now is not a good time to be involved with someone right now.
2006-08-30 17:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to realize that it will not be easy. When you are ready and by that I mean when you are 100% sure that you can stand firm on your decision then you need to approach maturally and sensitively. If you are an older (20's or older) Then you realize you have history as well as possible attachments from the physical relatrionship that you have shared with this person. If you are wanting out for you and no outside influences then you can make the break clean and without guilt. Sometimes leaving is hard but the future holds so much if we allow ourselves to take advantage of it to the fullest. Just be honest and above all understand that the receiver of this information will not be happy but life will go on for both of you. A word of caution....if there is a fear of any physical danger to your self or the other person you should have someone close involved to either protect you or be there for the other person.
2006-08-31 00:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not mentioned any reason on why you want to break up in a relation after 6 years.But whatever the reasons just have a frank discussion with your boyfriend regarding the break up.At least let him know the reason on why you want to break up with him.After 6 years ofbeing with you he certainly deserves an explanation from you.
Meet him in person and explain about your decision in a cool and composed manner.Its the best way to end a 6 year relationship in am matured manner and at least cordial atmosphere must be there when you meet him again.Its always best to part as friends.Just give him some time to get over this as you have made up your mind and it will be a big blow to him.At least be a moral support for your boy friend till such time till he gets over this break up.He also deserves it.
2006-08-31 00:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time in my life when I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. That is a long time to be with someone. When you date for that long, you are also extremely attatched to his family and the whole scenerio feels like a divorce. Well, infact it is. There is no simple advice except to say, that you are in for a few nights of crying, and a few nights of missing him and his family, but things will get easier in time. I truly believe that if you really loved him, you will continue to love him until the day you die; however that doesn't mean the two of you should be together. If you are planning to break up with him, you must know that he is not the one for you. Not every love is a good love or a healthy one. No matter what he may say, he is going to miss you too. Both of you deserve to be in a good healthy relationship with a love that will last a lifetime.
2006-08-31 00:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you have talked about this with him before now? Be truthful and give him a reason for why you no longer wish to be with him. Have you made up your mind about this or why have you been together so long and now you decide that you want to be apart from him. I think there is more to it than what you have said here.
2006-08-31 00:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a half break up. Break up, then the next day take him back. A week or two later, do the full break up. Then it won't be such a shock. Good luck.
2006-08-31 00:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by torylocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that u 2 are not cn i 2 i on things and u think that it would be best to just be friends, or better yet don't call him or answer his calls, he'll figure it out!!
2006-08-31 00:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by babgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE HAVING PROBLEMS
THEN YOU JUST NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HIM AND TELL
THAT YOU WANT TO END THE REALTIONSHIP. IF THERE
SOMEONE ELSE. OR WHAT GOING ON. THEN BE HONEST
THAT THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO. BUT HE DESERVE
THAT AFTER SIX YEARS. DONT YOU THINK.
2006-08-31 00:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him "catch you" having sex with the mailman unless he's a freak that get's off on that stuff? Good Luck!
2006-08-31 00:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Honest....thats the only way. It'll hurt, but at least you can leave with your dignity......and don't do anything stupid! Karma is a muthaphucka, and it comes back hard!!!
2006-08-31 00:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋