torn between two lovers
2006-08-30 17:08:39 · 19 answers · asked by chattykatty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you were really in love with either of them, you wouldn't be in love with both. Go with the one that makes you feel best about yourself and that you have the most fun with.
2006-08-30 17:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by intothelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself why the ex of 23yrs is still in picture. And if the relationship is so great why aren't you both married again. If it was a fulfilling relationship why are you dating a new person. Could this new person be love or just lust.
If there is any chance of a life again with ex you may want to work on it. You know the ex's problems where as you do not know this new persons problem..
But do not continue to see both you could end up losing both.
2006-08-30 17:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to weigh your options. Why did you leave your ex to begin with? Did he do something that you can't forgive or forget? If he is your ex, then there must be a reason for that. Give the new guy a chance. If things don't work out with him, then you can always go back to the old lover.
2006-08-30 17:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Francesca M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure that you can truly be in love with two people. You must have fallen out of love with your ex in order to allow yourself to find a new lover. Why did you look for a new lover if you were in love with your ex? Think about it. I don't think you can be in love with both.
2006-08-30 17:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one is your X for a reason....did that change?? Your new lover is probably more exciting because your still learning about each other. How can I answer that question for you. Decide what you need to be happy, what you can't tolerate and figure who meets that criteria best.
2006-08-30 17:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on WHY he is your ex? Which one loves you back and makes you the happiest. It is fun to have two lovers sometime, but it gets tiresome and gives you plenty of headaches.
Old loves are awesome because they know all your perks, likes and dislikes.
New loves are awesome because you get to try new stuff and teach them the ins and outs of your style.. mmm
2006-08-30 17:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure it's love? Maybe one is love and one is lust. Sit down with yourself and start asking questions about both. Put the answers on paper and the one that has the most answers would be the one that you love. Who makes u happy? Who makes u smile? When u see his name on the caller ID do u smile? You get the picture, don't you?
2006-08-30 17:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by babgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin; just kiddin. How does a person be in love with two? One of them for love, perhaps, and the other one a real big turn-on. I don't know, figure out which is which.
2006-08-30 17:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by dubdwells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're immature mentally. Neither you're too youthful to get married nor she too is. she is going to get married on the right time & if her sex existence mutually with her fiance is going nicely, she will have the capacity to be happiest conceivable in marriage & received't even care about you in destiny. you ought to ignore her because you don't recognize tangible meaning & undemanding theory of marriage. you do not even recognize a lady's psychology.
2016-11-23 15:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by dlabaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nawww you just in denile, you love one and the other one is d*cking yo azz down good! so u b the judge,and you choose,either one ya been with 23 years or........... mr. i dont give a *uck? ask yoself does he care bout me,will he be der for me, how does he really feel about me??? will he be der for you threw thick/thin? does he know what ya look like when ya wake up?lol does he know your moods,is he willing to help you when ya need it?????? helllllll nawww he just wants da p*ssy! **** he's probly married himself! better think bout it! and another thing, how old r u?
2006-08-30 17:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by sha g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋