I am 32 and I have been married for 10 years. I love my husband and when we actually do have sex (about once a month) I like it. It is not that I just got this way after being married. I have been like this even in high school. I know everyone is gonna ask me if I have had a traumatic experience that makes me not want to have sex but the answer is no. I just don't know. It is like I just don't have time for it and when I do have extra time then I would rather do other things like go boating or water skiing. Is there any other qwomen out there that only have sex once a month and still have a wonderful happy marraige?
2006-08-30 17:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
are you on birth control? a low sex drive is a pretty common side effect with bc ...... or just try to experience new ideas! everyone's got a freaky side, you just gotta find it! but hey, i wouldn't see it as a problem if your marriage is doing just fine. good luck!
2006-08-30 17:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone has a different level of interest in sexual activity and it's not your fault if yours doesn't "measure up" to the hype around sex in our culture. As long as you are both happy with your marriage, there's really no problem.
2006-08-30 17:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by maskedlioness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might not have a very high lebido. one way to increase your desire for sex is to experiment. try vibrators, kama sutra, but in any case just try something.
2006-08-30 17:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing it is perfectly normal
2006-08-30 18:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by friscoboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its may be your husband is not able give you full satisfaction.
2006-08-30 17:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by alexmr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hunny, is that you?
2006-08-31 01:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by idtshadow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋