Seriosly discouraged! I had been dating 4 guys in my university, they are smart, fun sex and good-looking but they eventually turned out being jerks, then I got hurt and had to break up with them. There are some nice guys out there, very smart, caring and sweet, but why they are not that physically attractive? I know attractiveness is very subjective, talking about looks sound shallow. But I just could not be turned on by one guy I am now with, no matter how great personality he has. I can be good friend with him and feel comfortable and enjoy his company, but feeling bad when having sex with him since I dont find him attractive at all. What is wrong with me? For long-term relationship, how can you find one you have that burning fire for and also you can develop a good friendship with? Should i just leave this bf or I better be realistic giving up such a dream combining passionate lover and loyal/sweet friend into the real one man?
2006-08-30 17:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is called the bad guy syndrome. Alot of women want men who are rebellious and born to be wild but get all the other bad things come with it. Just the type of guy mom and dad don't want you to marry. Unfortunately, my daughter did this and continues to do it and it has ruined her life.
Just like some guys want sex with many different women but when it comes right down to it wants to marry the virgin.
2006-08-30 17:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, two possibilities:
A: the single guys you are meeting are other women's rejects. So they are all generally flawed. Keep looking!
B: Do you think you find them less attractive because of how they treat you? When guys are sweet, nice and caring, do you find yourself thinking of them as week, or unable to protect you? To some extent, well, whatever works for you, but if you find you're only attracted to guys you can't stand, you'll need to work on that.
2006-08-30 18:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break !!! You play games with guys emotions and string them along. Karma did it's justice. Try something new like telling the truth, it could land your dream man. Like anything in life, you won't change. Just be happy with your one night stands and booty calls. When you leave college the only relationship you'll have is the one that work on batteries.
2006-08-30 17:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep looking... You may need to date 20 guys before you find the right one - so be it. Attractiveness/good sex and great personality/stability are not mutually exclusive. You just haven't found the right one!
2006-08-30 17:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are superficial and shallow, you are too young to have any substance other than wanting a sexy looking guy and those guys are always jerks, when you grow up you will learn that love is more than just looks
2006-08-30 17:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a woman and you're every bit (if not more) shallow than all of us men. Sorry. I know the truth hurts.
2006-08-30 18:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by intheholycity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY YOU NEED TO REALIZE SOMETHING YOU HAVEN'T HAD A GOOD LIFE UNTIL YOU MEET A GOOD MAN KNOW MATTER WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE.
2006-08-30 17:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by srcall1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIME ITS LIKE THAT.... KEEP THE GUY U HAVE AND LEAVE THE PRETTY BOYS ALONE..
2006-08-30 17:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you're an idiot.
2006-08-30 17:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋