like your life is stuck... You are not moving anywhere like forward or even backwards... I am feeling like i am in limbo.. just wanted to know if anyone else feels like that..
2006-08-30 16:58:28 · 19 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I traveled all my life, seen so many but when i get home i feel like okay i am stuck.. i am not doing what i need to do, what i want to do for my life... you know..
2006-08-30 17:07:12 · update #1
life is a rut
2006-08-30 17:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt this way on and off my whole life (or what seems like my whole life . . . I'm 39). I think everyone has insecurities (i.e., rut issues) at each stage of their life. It's something we all face, " . . . am I where i should be at this stage in my life . . . is this all there is . . . when I was 18 I always thought I would've been to Europe by now, and all I've seen is the Arch in St. Louis . . ."
Yes, we all feel the same way. Hang in there and believe that life happens while you are planning for the next big event.
2006-08-31 00:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. Especially since i have been going to a Dallas Community College. See i keep trying to complete my degree (a BA in K-12 EDU, which requires a transfer with 61 credits), but with all the wrong information I have been getting over the last four years it has lead to me having 96 credit hours, a 3.785 GPA and no degrees that are useful.
Thanks alot Mountain View...I trusted you and now I cry almost once a week because I feel like I will never freaking finish.
2006-08-31 00:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by cookies_n_cream0218 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that a rut happens right before a major milestone in your life - like an "a-ha!" moment, or something developmental like a physical feat or growth of some sort. This is a good sign - that you recognize stagnancy, and that it's intolerable - or at least lackluster. It means you are ready for change, and more than likely now will be open to it. Congrats & have fun with it!
2006-08-31 00:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt this way before.
You want to get your thoughts to something else.
Stuck, yes.
You are stuck in thought.
Try motion.
Think something new, grab a higher thought.
Limbo.
The limbo is fun, but ever since my back surgery, not too good an idea, especially not on rollerblades.
Watch out!!
Peace.
2006-08-31 00:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by elibw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that. I thought my job, driving expedited freight all over the country, would alleviate the boredom, but it's still the same old thing, just different scenery. I spend too much time alone, I think, and I am bored by the lack of stimulation.
2006-08-31 00:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by clh149@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is big time hehehehe, I allways beign rude to my self and others and the I realize the life is everything but what I really want. Some times sucks but someothers have a premium ticket for some uf us (or at least for me).
2006-08-31 00:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jose_BBN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right there with you..been working at the same job for longer than even my boss has owned it.. sometimes its like the same old boring routine--does it ever end?? if i didn't have so much freedom and being a manager i would look for another job..but im not going to start from scratch...so i Will stay right where i am ..in Dullsville..USA......
2006-08-31 00:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'm feeling that way now. Once my degree is finished, I'll be a happier bunny. As Dusty used to say, I just don't know what to do with myself...
2006-08-31 00:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally feel exactly how u just described your life!! I feel that i'm not fulfilling my life as much as it could and I could do something more exciting but I can't figure out what!
2006-08-31 00:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by blondie9624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋