I've been married for 3 years now and sometimes I get bored in the relationship. Does anyone have any ideas how to make things more fresh and new?
2006-08-30 16:47:19 · 8 answers · asked by Tljabgdvhj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Date each other go out and do some fun things! So many people get comfortable in the day to day stuff! Do the things you did when your relationship was at it's highest peak. When we are dating we are on our best behavior and really listen and can't wait to be together. Don't forget to still do the things that made him or her fall in love with you. Be fun, seductive and loving and remember everyday is a new day keep the love giving and not taken for granted. Good luck!
2006-08-30 16:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a hard time answering these questions because i'm not sure if you mean sexually or just in general, so I'll respond to both.
First, regarding the relationship as a whole you both should have independent goals that you would like to achieve. Buy some land, build a house, develop a business plan . . . your spouse could start a new career, etc. Support and believe in each other's dreams. It alleviates the boredom and is fun to watch the other succeed, work hard at it, etc.
Sexually, what fetishes do you and your spouse enjoy? Indulge in them!
2006-08-30 16:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Think back to what attracted you two in the beginning? There was some sort of "spark" at one time, try having an "affair" with your spouse. By this I mean just the two of you going away somewhere (it doesn't have to be far or expensive) check local motels in your area some have hourly rates. Go get a room and "invite " your spouse, Get creative, try rose petals in the bed! that's nice to come home to! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 16:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
set goals together:
some serious
some silly
some outrageous
some together
some individual
It will remind you why you feel in love, show you a glimpse into what new sides of your partner & give you something to go back to when things are in a bit of a lull.
Then bust them out a few times a year & see how you are doing. Maybe it time to attempt that outrageous or silly goal!
2006-08-30 18:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jenner 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're bored, YOU are boring.
You need to be nice to each other and not let stupid things get you into an argument.
Start doing fun things with each other. Make exciting plans to look forward to.
2006-08-30 17:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Suggest to your partner the idea of bringing in a third person to join in sex with the two of you. If your a woman you might want another man or another woman to help spice up you and your partners sex life.
2006-08-30 17:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you love her and do special things for each other! Like getting them coffee or a pepsi.
2006-08-30 16:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep trying new sexual things, keep it interesting, and fun.
2006-08-30 16:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by tm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋