im 16 and im scared to take a pregnacy test bc im scared of wat the answer will be...?

Question

i no i have to take one but im scared of the answer being yes and then where do i go from there...i guess i am pushing takeing a test aside bc if i am pregnant i dont no wat i would do...help!

Answer 1

well you should of thought about that before you had sex .yes you should be scared having a baby is scary when you are so young. i say go to your mom and talk to her and tell her that you think that you might be pregnant and ask her to help you.you don't have to do this along ok,good luck sweetheart

Answer 2

Its best to take the test as soon as possible. Even if your not sure how you will react if you are. But if theres rason to think your pregnant the sooner the better. If you are pregnant you will need the proper medical care, for you and your baby. And if your not pregnant and having symptoms, it could be a sign theres is another very serious health problem that needs to be addressed. If you need it try to think of someone your trust to be there with you, a good friend, a friends mom, family memeber, or if you can drive go to your family doctor (they have to keep it confidential), or even a family planning clinic. If you are pregnant you will have time to figure everything out, but its better to know. There are a lot of things that can happen to lead you to believe that your pregnant. (Im not sure what your situation is) But stress, illness, infections, STD's, just regular hormonal changes can all affect your periods in addition to pregnancy. If your sexually active you should be having regular GYNO exams (even if your test shows no pregnancy) I know it could be hard trying to explain to your parents why you need to go, but even telling them that your periods have been killer heavy and you would like to see a doc. Plus it can be frightening the first few times, but its something that if your responsible enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough for your own health. Once there you can ask the nurse to ask the doctor to have your mom step out of the room. OR get the number ahead of time to your docs office and explain the situation and they can have it in your chart to do the right kind of test. Good luck hun, just take care of it soon.

Answer 3

lisaj1031 is right - you need to find out. I'd like to add that there are clinics and shelters all over the place that can help you, and there are many, many, many families looking for babies to adopt if you feel unable to care for him/her. Becoming a parent is the most wonderful part of life, in my opinion, but it can be difficult. Nevertheless, don't get overly stressed about it - that won't help. If it turns out you are pregnant, try to get your family's support, and if you can't, then seek out shelters for young mothers that will help you to give birth and plan for the future. I truly hope with all my heart that you will choose life, in any event. If you keep the baby, I will say that in all my life, there has been nothing more rewarding than being a parent of my two young boys. To hear their laughter, to talk to them on the phone, to spend time playing with them - it's amazing. I believe strongly that love is the single most important thing in the life of a child. I wish you well.

Answer 4

you have to be responsible of what you have done, be it you scare or not. you if are pregnant even you don't test it, is still a fact that you are pregnant, a life a growing with you. Lets face the fact, go n take the test and discuss with yr partner and family what to do if you confirm you are pregnant. Your family support is very important... that's the only way out ... good luck!!

Answer 5

ok as a mother i know now why when you get older you start sounding like your mother (especially if you have a good mom!)...but here goes....ok honey....why at 16 do you have to be having sex at all?!....and of all thing in this day and age ..we have a million types of preventive contraceptions.....please don't be doing it just to be cool....most girls say that to fit in and boys say and do it most of the time just to use the girls...(at this age especially)...and use a condom....hello do you want nice pus lesions on your private areas....nice and oozing....or AIDS...it still exists!....I know...everyone always thinks it's someone else that it will happen to...but look...here you are....so..unfortunately if you think you're ready to play with fire....well now you have to step up to the bat.....just do the test and get it over with....do it when you have privacy...can you tell a best friend or the potential father...for support...(just make sure it's someone you trust so you're whole school doesn't know).....and speaking of school...it sounds from your spelling you still need to be there!....I would say have the baby...it won't be easy but you could be giving birth to a future leader of something great!!....I mean there is abortion and adoption to think of....but having the baby is best I think...maybe you can talk to a guidance counselor....oh and by the way...that britney person response about having the "kid"young and getting it over with basically SO WRONG!!...oh my God you have to go to college...get a great job...and $$$...in college you can party til you puke...fall in lust and then after maybe travel the world....doesn't that sound a lot better...i hope it's all nerves and you're not....but if you are...good luck and seek a professional of some sorts for support

Answer 6

The sooner you find out the better. Depending on what you want to do if you are pregnant, then you need to find out as soon as possible. I know it can be really scary. I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant with my first baby on b/c! You just have to take it. You had sex consensually (I assume) so now you need to be an adult and do what needs to be done. Find out and if you want you can email me for advice at [e-mail]. Good luck.

Answer 7

Well you should definetely take a test. It might turn out to be negative but if it is you should still take another one later or see a doctor to be sure. I mean what are your symptoms? Did you use protection? Is it to late to take the morning after pill? You have plenty of options....just ask and provide details.

Answer 8

Well you need to take it , what if you are the nyou need to go to doc right away and start taking care of yourself. If you arent , then you will have learned a lesson, go to the clinic and get on BCP. Good luck, and im sure you will get some immature answers, i was a young mom too, and have done pretty well for myself.

Answer 9

you are being way to silly about this...you *need* to take the test and confirm or deny the possibility of the pregnancy! This is for your health and that of the possible baby. If you are old enough to get yourself into this predicament- then you also need to realize that your old enough todeal with this situation too! Maybe you shouldn't being having sex if your not old enough or mature enough to face the consequences that go along with such an activity. I don't want this to sound as harsh as it probably does to you but come on...be mature enough to accept responsibility for your actions (good or bad) this situation needs to be dealt with asap!! good luck- I hope the test comes out the way you are hoping for!!!

Answer 10

I know your scared, but you have to find out. If you are the longer you wait the further you will be in your pregnancy. If you are and you consider terminating the baby you need to do it as soon as possible. The longer you wait the more painfull it will be. Don't be scared you will get through it.