I have been married for almost 10 yrs. I have cheated in the past. But does that make it right for him to want to go out and explore now? Ok, I was his first. And untill we hand a threesome his only. Should I be ok with him exploring the company of others?
2006-08-30 16:39:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is a personal decision between the two of you. I commend him for being upfront and honest abotut it, though. If you are okay with it, then don't worry so much. Play too. There are swingers all over the place and you two can have fun with it. BUT only if you are honest with each other. The cheating is only bad (in my opinion) if it is lied about.
2006-08-30 16:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by jobie023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, because of your history I don't even know what to say. Except that two wrongs don't make a right and that you guys are a team and should do all things together. But like I said because of the past who knows. And I know the past should stay in the past but in your case the was together.
2006-08-30 23:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, no, no! You two don't have a marriage, you have a contest. You did this so I get to do that. Get some counseling before you have an ex-husband. Go by yourself if necessary. Find out why you need more people in your bed and his. Get a professional's advice, please.
2006-08-30 23:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are but we are swinger and we talk about it after it happens , it also keep are sex life up
2006-08-30 23:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by sadley696969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! But you shouldnt have either!
2006-08-30 23:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2006-08-30 23:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋