Do you think it is ok for young people to have sex b4 marriage?

Answer 1

No they shouldn't! I wish that I had waited........

Answer 2

I think it is important to be married, or at very least have the same lifelong commitement to eachother before a couple risks bringing a child in to this world. At the beginning stages of a relationship there are so many hormones and you feel like you can be together forever and all this but that doesnt last. A real relationship that lasts for years is not built upon these emotions, but hard work. True love isnt something you feel, it is something you do, and something you make. There are just alot of young couples with babies who split up because they havent spent enough time learning to have a good relationship...or even if they can have a relationship long term. There are just so many aborted babies, unwanted babies, or babies that live in unhappy homes because the parents were too young to truly realize what the consequences of sex can be, too young to have learnt how to have a healthy relationship with thier partner. I am maybe not explaining so well, what I ma trying to say, but hopefully ou understand the essence of what I mean. These are my feelings on the issue anyway.

Answer 3

I think that there is so much to go through as a kid, and throwing a sexual relationship in the mix only adds a huge new world of emotions to deal with. When you fall in love and are in a great relationship- sex is better than just sex like screwing around because everyone else does. What happened to kissing and making out, how come that is not good enough anymore? I think there is a lot of growing that people do between 13 and 20. Why not wait until you have matured enough to make decisions based on knowledge and experience, more than curiosity and horomones. I waited, not because of religion or my parents, because I wanted to have fun and live my life and not have something like that tying me down. Worked for me.

Answer 4

I am a lot older than you. But do know that it was had by my generation, my mom's generation and probably each generation that has been around. So kids today think they have found the secret to this beautiful feeling. Well I'm not going to preach and say having participated in it before marriage is neither good nor bad, when in reality it is often normal. But I do know that my fiance's daughter gave herself to a boy for the first time when she was 16, very open dialogue with her mother and I. She regrets it to this day, they were together about 1.5 years and he was a manipulative partner and abused her emotionally. She now feels that most of the guys that are hitting on her are only after one thing and that she has gained a reputation of being loose around her school. So think long and hard, no pun intended, about becoming active as you have the rest of your live to enjoy. Besides it takes a long time to create a good name for yourself and only an instant to tear it down. Peace.

Answer 5

It all depends on how young the people are. If they are out of school and have their own job, then they should be mature enough to have sex if they want. If they are younger than 17 I would say they need to mature first. They don't understand what sex is really about.

Answer 6

how young? I was 15 and regret that choice even though I stayed with him for 4 years. It opens a door to disease, pregnancy, HPV which can cause cancer. Premarital sex, yes. Young people bumping uglies in the seat of a car is bad practice. Do it right.

Answer 7

Sex is marriage. Within sex the two become one body and hence one flesh. Read 1 Corinthians 6:16 Or do you not know that he being joined to a harlot is one body? For He says, "The two shall be into one flesh."

First get a husband.

Answer 8

I think it is OK, because if you don't experience what is like to be with other people before marriage, you are probably going to wonder what it is like after you get married, this could be fatal to a marriage.

Answer 9

Every 22 seconds a teenager in the US gets pregnant.

Count to 22 .

That could have been you, if you were having sex right then.

Answer 10

I do as long as they both are responsible about it and are willing to accept the consequences if she should become pregnant. I think it's important to check the waters out so to speak before you go wading.

Answer 11

its not ok, but it happens everyday, and will continue to happen,people have intercourse before marriage for several different reasons, be it rape or consent. so what is the point of this question again?