I feel I should have stayed in bed today. I am a nervous wreck.
2006-08-30 16:34:15 · 13 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't like feeling like this.
2006-08-30 16:35:10 · update #1
Even my boyfriend hates me.
2006-08-30 16:35:55 · update #2
I don't have any friends.
2006-08-30 16:38:04 · update #3
some times just sitting in a nice hot bath will help you feel better
that and on the terms of being a holy roller put you r worries and trouble in the Lords hands he is there to help when no one else is there. we all have the days when we think that no one likes us just remember that Jesus will always be there I know because i had to have neck and brain surgery and was not supposed to of made it off the table but i did cuze the lord was there always and forever You will always have some one the tell your troubles to if not the Lord then me
2006-08-30 17:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by fit_tech04 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Monito is quite right. This forum is all well and good, but sitting in front of a computer is not going to make you feel better about yourself. Go do something that you know usually makes you feel happy. Go shopping and buy yourself a nice bunch of flowers. Go have a chat with a friend and recognise that if your boyfriend really did hate you he would not still be your boyfriend. Just go for a walk and smile at people, then count how many bother to smile back and how many that don't. The ones that don't are probably having a shitty day as well! Smiles cost nothing but lift the spirits
2006-08-30 23:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had days where you don't feel like this? From my own experience, I have days where I feel like the entire world is against me and I'm all alone. On those days, every feeling or set of emotion I have is depressing. But then there are days that I couldn't feel more alive and happy because things are going my way. Life is all about give and take. As much as we wish everyday could be perfect, it can't.
When things get hard, just go to sleep. I don't care what time of day it is. Go home, put on a relaxing DVD like Golden Girls and just relax. The next day will come faster and yesterday will be over.
Also think about how you are going to start off your next day. If you don't have any friends tell yourself, "ok tommorrow, I'm going to try". And go to a club, or one of those local groups. Even myspace or online with people looking for penpals. There are tons of people out there looking for someone to talk to.
2006-08-30 23:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Transformers20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has those days. At least I know I do. I guess the only thing to do is learn to laugh at yourself along with everyone else and hopefully tomorrow will be someone else's turn to get picked on. That's why I purchased a punching bag 2 years ago. 10 minutes with that thing and I feel much better.
2006-08-30 23:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are feeling the blue.Do something you like to do by yourself.Do you read ,do puzzle,walk,watch a movie,sing,go to the mall,etc.This is your day,forget about everyone need right now and think about how you can shake the blue so you can enjoy the rest of the day.Tomorrow is a better day.
2006-08-30 23:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by 40something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I sympathize somewhat - you are quite lucky that it is only one day! Everyone has a bad day once in a while, but some people have bad days consistently.
Drink some herbal tea, light a scented candle or incense, take a warm bath - and hope to have a good day tomorrow - make it a point to make tomorrow a better day.
2006-08-30 23:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some friends that can cheer you up. If they can't then maybe you need to make some new friends. Usually when I feel like that it's me making a big deal about nothing. I'm not saying you do that, but I sure do.
2006-08-30 23:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel but your family and boyfriend don't hate you.
Family pick on you because they love you and that's their job, to be that way.
If your boyfriend hated you, he wouldn't be your boyfriend in the first place.
Try to stay positive. I wish I would've stayed in bed today myself but it'll be ok.
The things people say, the way they pick on you, it only makes you a stronger person; don't let it bother you.
2006-08-30 23:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off line. Don't expect help from people you don't know. Reach out to friends and love ones.
2006-08-30 23:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a really funny movie it should cheer you up or a sad movie
2006-08-30 23:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by smrtgrl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋