i always think abt a guy every morn, eve night and even min my dreams..but he is in love with someone for the past 8 yrs and they both wanna marry..sincerely..but i dont know why i still keep thinking abt him.. though i dont blive that its love i donno what else to call it.in fact..i wanna come out of it..i donno how..why do i have such feelings towards him even whaen i know that he doesn't do the same and how do i take him off my mind completely?
ps. i am not very close to him and get to see him only once or twice in a month.that too for a few mins.neither i have contact with him by phone ..i mail him only once in a while....then too such an attachment!
2006-08-30 16:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by flower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's infatuation dear
get over it fast and concentrate more on your studies.
2006-08-30 16:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the whole what if factor?? what would it be like to be with him and feel his love that he has for this other grl. it's not stupid it's qutie normal. People always tend to fantasize more about the things they can't have than the things they have or can easily obtain. it's partly your age too. I was already into a serious relationship by that age and pregnant. If i would of realized sooner than alot later that is was a rebound from a 3 yr relationship with my first love in high school i would of saved my self alot of waisted time and the hurt of being thrown out like yesterdays trash with 2 kids after 12 yrs and not even being married but having a great life with someone I thought i knew and could trust. Just take your time when it comes to involving your whole self with someone make sure all your priorities are straight. you'll forget about him get a hobby and move on to something meaning full.
2006-08-30 18:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) Um i'd not say human beings hate him yet they in basic terms don't love him and that must be Shino Aburame, quite some human beings hate Pein yet i respect him, theres alot more beneficial that i'll't keep in concepts 2) Yeah yet i take care of my time. um i'm getting about 9 hours of loose time, it relies upon on the day, i really get quite some time on the weekends, I actual have more beneficial frequently than not morning training so i'm getting loose time in the afternoon. 3) No I actual have not i imagine
2016-11-23 15:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by duggins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems more like an obsession than love. If you're not even really close to him, why would you love him? You don't even really know him that well. You could be just projecting a fantasy on him, I think that's more likely. I would find a more healthy relationship than that.
2006-08-30 16:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by theonlymonsterdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you have a serious "crush." He must be your type of guy. I don't think there is much you can do about this but go with the flow. Enjoy your dreams and fantasies while you can.
2006-08-30 16:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either you are in love with being in love or your mildly obsessive compulsive. either way you seem a bit lonely i would utilize your schools counciling services and just talk to them about it. its most likely nothing more than a combination of things stress, homesick, lonely, wanting the marriage thing yourself. but if you have another person to basically vent this too you may feel better about it.
2006-08-30 16:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way for you to kick your feelings for this guy is to get involved with another guy. The first or second may not curb your appetite but steady dating may help get this guy out of your head.
2006-08-30 16:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation. Love goes both ways.
Be careful because you don't want to get mixed up with him if he starts to come your way. That'll be a huge mess.
2006-08-30 16:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you are infatuated with him, its not wrong, I too have infatuations, we all do, it is natural. Its also a bit exciting, to catch him looking at you, or the feeling when you cant help but to smile while talking to him, I love it!!!
2006-08-30 16:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by jeri_nunez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't know much about him I, too, would label this as infatuation. Enjoy it but don't let it get in the way of any of your other relationships!
2006-08-30 16:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋