actually i met a guy . he is gud and i like him too.he has been calling me his sister and i call him brother.but now i feel i am too much attached to him and i just dont know how to come out of it.my friend tells me that i am crazy abt him and i like him too much than i should. i know him for 7 months only but theres not a single day, single hour that i have not thought abt him.he is in love with a girl and they r abt to marry in a couple of yrs.i just wanna stop thinking abt him and concentrate on my work and other things instead. i donno how? please help,i am totally disturbed .
2006-08-30 16:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by flower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you have to come to terms with his relationship with his fiancee. A fiancee is someone he has chosen to be his life partner. If he wants to have a happy marriage, he should not allow anyone to come between him and his fiancee. This will only bring about arguments and general unhappiness. They should both only have eyes for each other. You have to think about you. Thinking about him all the time is not good for you. If you think about your situation you are actually having an affair with him in your heart and this is not good for either of you. You will have to confide in someone you can trust and share your feelings with them, make sure they are a responsible person who can show you the error of your ways and show you also how much harm you are actually doing to yourself.
Do you have a pet? Owning something that you have to be responsible for and having something to hug and pet is also good therapy. If it is a dog, you can take it for walks and get exercise and meet other people, maybe the man of your dreams. If this were the man of your dreams, he would not be marrying someone else. All the best...remember it is always a woman's prerogative to change her mind, so keep changing yours to get him out of it. Keep busy, keep active and enjoy your freedom while you still have it.
2006-08-30 16:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fran Moran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. It DOESN'T matter he's getting married (and some years from now? COME ON! MANY things can happen in the meantime!).
If U try 2 "forget about him", you'll end up regretting the fact that you NEVER knew if he felt the same way about you.
TELL HIM. If he says he doesn't feel the same way, SCREW HIM! He DOESN'T deserve YOU! Trust me, you DON'T wanna "hide" your feelings for him and regret it every single day of your life... The "what ifs" are HIDDEOUS. THEY SUCK! Get it off your chest and BE HAPPY! LIFE'S TOO DAMN SHORT!
GOOD LUCK!!! ;0) ;0) ;0)
2006-08-30 16:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bleue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe what you need to do is tell him how you feel about him even known he is getting married to someone else. or you might reget not ever telling him how you felt. if you truely care enoughn he will understand and known where your come from trust me on this.
2006-08-30 16:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly Mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet people. It's never good to obsess over anyone. Go make it happen. You can meet someone who is free.
2006-08-30 16:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in a relationship then you need to distance yourself from him. Try not spending so much time with him and talk to him less.
2006-08-30 16:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like your in love. You need to tell brother how you feel about him.
2006-08-30 16:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by luv2so2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone needs meds
2006-08-30 16:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋