My daughter forbids me to let her children see her ex husband's parents because she is so bitter towards him. My mother agrees and critizes me for allowing the children see their grandparents. I have custody of the children because my daughter is in jail. What do you think?
2006-08-30 16:04:14 · 9 answers · asked by twelfntwelf3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep in mind that THE JUDGE granted me full custody. It is not my daughters decision, or my mother, but mine, and I insisted in allowing the children to see the grandparents, because I am walking in their shoes, I am a grandmother too. I was getting alot of critizing from them, and decided to see what other people would do in my situation.
2006-08-30 16:50:38 · update #1
Yes, these children need to feel loved and secure in their family, Get together with the grandparents and agree on what should and should not be mentioned about the family situation. No one should take sides or say anything bad about either parent. Just make sure they realize the divorce had nothing to do with them. Instead focus on the love and attention that the grandchildren deserve. Good for you for realizing the children need and deserve their family.
2006-08-30 16:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by DaLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, they gained't get any rights on your daughter what so ever especailly because of the fact that they do drugs and drink continuously. there is not any way absolutely everyone of their top ideas might chop up custody from a mom with the childs grandparents regardless of if that's around the borders. IT does understand which you're in Tennessee, and if I have been you i might complete stop chatting along with her. have no longer something to do with them, in the event that they decide to locate you, stumble on a decide to reserve a DNA try for the toddler, then hire a criminal expert (which might actually be hundreds and hundreds of dollars) to return locate you and serve you papers for 'grandparants rights' that don't even exist on your city...enable them to. They wont get far. you may desire to call a criminal expert and ask for regulation suggestion, maximum try this over the telephone for loose and that they are going to provide help to realize promptly up with the grandparents rights element on your state.
2016-11-06 03:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's only fair to let the children see their grandparents, it's not their fault about the divorce and you should keep things as normal as possible for the kids sake. As long as both set of grandparents are in agreement that it's the children's best intrest that bad things should not be talked about in front of them but also to be as honest as possible with them.
2006-08-30 16:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the hell do grandparent have to do with your and his failures in marriage were i the other set of grandparent i would sue the hell out of you and try for custody both of you and your daughter are unfit try the shoe on the other foot your question answerd it your daughter is irresponsible and in jail do the right think as an adult and invite the other set of grandparent to visit they have equal rights
2006-08-30 16:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right for the kids, sorry but if she is sitting in jail she wasn't making very good choices before so step up and do the things you think are in thier best interest.
2006-08-30 16:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Answerkeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much as this must gall you, it is not your decision. Your daughter has every right to decide whom her children do and do not see. You should abide by her strictures.
2006-08-30 16:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its up to you now. shes in jail. Lets just hope you raise these kids better so they dont end up in jail like your kid did.
2006-08-30 16:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes in jail..and ur not doing the kids ANY good buy not letting them see the grandparnets..let them see um..
2006-08-30 16:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it isnt the grandparents fault
2006-08-30 16:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋