2006-08-30 15:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by arianarjohnson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you do NOT push urself...... you take the time to greave for what is lost..... give urself a break and do all the emotions..... give urself permission to feel !!!! write, sing, do poems, get mad, get sad, get on with ur life when the time is right..... the problem is today people think we have to be super woman and just be so strong and move on in a week....... taking the time to heal is a GOOD thing...... after the healing we then can move on with our lives and be OK with it all..... putting stuff on the back burner is unhealthy and asking for trouble down the road...... we have to get over pain and get rid of it, not put a band-aide over it and pretend it is not there..... you cant find love again until you reconcile with past love..... and remember, it is OK to be friends with the ex. after you are OK with it all..... friend ship is healthy and wise and a very normal and natural thing.... do NOT let anyone tell you , that you have to hang on to the hate and pain...... when the time is right allow urself to be happy again....... and you will........ just let urself go thru the emotions and that encludes HAPPY !!!!!!!!!! God bless
2006-08-30 16:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant. there is a part of him that will always remain with u. u will c him everyday when u wake up ad look into your kids eyes. best thing to do if u truly love him that much is try to work it out. go to counseling.
2006-08-30 23:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chicago's 1st Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is your best healer, just look after yourself and your kids. Things will work out. Take care.
2006-08-30 23:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋