2006-08-30 15:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know, Some people stay because they really love the other person and each of them are scared to give up!!
But people are just wasting there time.
some people stay cause there scared of change.
ITS HARD to give up!
2006-08-30 15:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because even though you may not be happy on some level there are so many other things that are part of a relationship that bring you some sort of satisfaction. That satisfaction would allow you to sacrifice one part of your life for another. Like Being familiar to one another which brings comfort. Some people are scared to be alone. Others fear if they end the relationship how will they survive financially. Some people like the fact that sex is available without spending money and saying nice things. Some people just don't like to say they are single. Then of course there are those who do love to complain every single day about the what the you know what did today.
2006-08-30 16:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't stay in it. Why stay in a unhappy relationship, goodness you both deserve better than that. Discuss your emotions and feelings with your partner and hopefully if you decide to make the split you can do so on friendly terms. Best of luck to you.
2006-08-30 15:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have children. Or you are married and going through a period of termoil. There are a lot of reasons to stay in a relationship. On the otherhand, if this is a boyfriend/girlfriend with whom you have no children, then move on.
2006-08-30 15:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people stay in it because they may not like the things that the person is doing, but they love that person. Some may be in it for the various things they may gain, albeit money, sex and other things. Some stay in it because they are scared to be alone and they need someone in their life to fill that void.
2006-08-30 15:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by cavetteb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the both of you are willing to work it out and/or go to counseling, then don't stay in a relationship you're unhappy in.
2006-08-30 15:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, it is better to be alone and happy, than with someone and unhappy..
Life is too short not to enjoy it.. and you certainly can't enjoy it if you are unhappy..
I would rather be by myself. I am a big girl and I do not need a keeper. I take care of myself just fine.
I never feel alone, I am just very content with me..
2006-08-30 15:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you need to do,is Chill! and set back i'll tell you all about love Problems. oh yah love Problems uh huh. first if you love him, regardless of how you feel toward him,if Hes not feeling the Same about you, you are doing nothing for Yourself, but to put yourself thru, a living Hell! it will never work regardless of what you do,say,feel,Nothing will Change in his heart, because once the Love/lust is Lost that Person,Can Never give you what your going to need to be whole again, keep in touch let me know how things go
2006-08-30 15:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets complicated but the minute something doesn't go just the way you want people bail out, that's why the divorce rate is so high...adults acting like children not getting their way. It's just like Dr Phil says, you have to earn your way out. The deal breaker for me would be any kind of abuse. Then just get out.
2006-08-30 16:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's way more fun to complain everyone constantly about how bad your relationship, and throw a pity party for yourself every day.
That's why people do it.
2006-08-30 15:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by d h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋