I have this friend that is she's married and is in love with another man do you think that is right?
2006-08-30 15:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by peaches_cream711 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i am not a judger i cannot judge have not been in that kinda ordel but i have always heard that people come in and out of your life they are like tree's someone people are leaves they stay a little while and then blow away while on the other hand they are like a tree trunk are always there to stay maybe she just havent found her soulmate yet....
2006-08-30 15:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by miss_erica_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it is right. She took her vows and should try her best to carry them out. In today's disposable society even relationships seem to be tossed away when a brighter light is seen. Remember and remind your friend that the grass is not always greener on the other side. And besides how would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot and her husband had feelings for another woman?
2006-08-30 22:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i gusses it could happen out there. all thing are very possible but it would be best to probaly divcore ur husband or break up with your new crush so things don't get too mess. i don't think it is right. in less your husband would approve in less you like it that way but yeah it is possibaly to be married and love another man at the same time. this is for your friend
2006-08-30 23:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly Mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be married to one man and in love with another? Of course, girl. Do I think it's right? No I don't. If she's in love with someone other than her husband, she should tell her husband the truth, and move on (get divorced). Her husband deserves to be with someone who is in love with him too, even if that person isn't his wife.
2006-08-30 22:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Super Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that, and it was the worst experience of my entire life. My spouse committed suicide when he found out. I have to live with that regret for the rest of my life and my son has to live without a father. The "other man" was not worth keeping, he actually wanted to move in with me after my husband's funeral.
My husband's mother and siblings have to live without him in their lives and refuse to even talk to my son because they hate me so much. My son also has to live without an extended family.
Sometimes I can't help but wonder if the gun he turned on himself was menat for me.
Do the next right thing! Trust me there are no shortcuts.
2006-08-30 22:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by twelfntwelf3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is love. It doesn't understand right and wrong. Yes, of course it's possible. How one handles it is where right and wrong comes in. A person can't help their feelings but, that doesn't mean they won't honor their commitment to their spouse.
2006-08-30 22:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a friendship kind of love, that is okay. If it is a lustful kind, better prepare for a hurricane! It'll hit sooner or later. Infidelity is one of the top reasons for divorce. Regardless, I would warn your friend to keep her love as a friendship - nothing more.
2006-08-30 22:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Oklahoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens a lot but I don't think that it's right. I think that love is an emotion that should be given to your spouse. If she is no longer in love with her husband, she should be fair to all involved and leave him.
2006-08-30 22:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's not right,she will be cheating soon if not already.Cheating hurts,and what gos around comes around i hope you tell her that.And it will come around when she least expects it,so don't cheat.
2006-08-30 22:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this is right at all tell her she needs help!
2006-08-30 22:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋