at me, rolling his eyes and stares me down. I don't talk to him because he is loud and rude. There is times when he starts singing some a$$ silly Rupaul song and popping his fingers at me. I don't know what this means and I am starting to get pissed because it's a everyday thing. I don't want to walk up to him and ask him is he got a problem with me and I don't want to not say something. I guess my question is what should I do or what the hell does that sh*t mean? I know this sounds crazy but it's making me crazy as well.
2006-08-30 15:42:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's all just insane.
I'm gay, I've never seen anyone do such things at work. The fact you even know who RuPaul is makes me wonder a bit -- but it is strange. I would speak to him directly, and journal what is happening in case I had to take it up with Human Resources. I would do the same thing if I were being harassed by someone straight in appropriately stereotypical "straight ways" as well.
Kind thoughts,
Reynolds
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2006-08-30 17:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The aggressive gay guy or queen is very dramatic and is always trying to start something. It sounds like that's the case here. Maybe you should be aggressive as well. Although it won't solve anything.He's apparently interested in you and does not know how to approach you. Flaunt your stuff and make it known how you swing whether gay or straight. Once he knows your position he'll back off.
2006-08-30 22:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Unique1 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's still not secure in his sexuality and feels the need to rub it in other people's faces. I guess, I worked with a guy like this once after about 5 months of no one saying anything he quit with the jerky behavior.
2006-08-30 23:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not acceptable for anyone to act at a person like he is acting with you no matter if they are Gay Straight Bi or Lesbian so go up to him and ask him whats the problem then if he says nothing then tell him keep his sucking to himself lol. Good luck
2006-08-30 22:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Super 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a total drama queen... did you stare at him in a certain way... he might be reading too much into what you might've unintentional done to him...
Go up to him and start a conversation with " yo ...whaddup b*tch"
2006-08-30 23:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Skyeboi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think he just knows how to push your buttons and he's doing it. Next time just smile and go about your business. When you're busy, don't notice him at all. Act as though he's the village idiot, and if you need something from him, speak to him, other wise just smile and say, "Good morning Jimmy," or whatever and go about your business. Once he sees that he's NOT pushing your buttons, he'll stop.
2006-08-30 22:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he is not a gay man he is a catty female. treat him like you would any nasty girl. or just tell your manager that he is just being rude and mean and that if he stops things can be normal. kind of a hostile work environment if you ask me
2006-08-30 22:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he likes you
2006-08-30 23:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a gay brother......several things could be going on here.
A. you borrowed and item of his clothing ad forgot to return it.
B. he likes your man
C. he likes a man that actually likes you instead.
D.you have the exact same pair of his favorite shoes.
2006-08-30 22:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chicago's 1st Lady 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's jealous of you, you're making him look bad. Take that in a good way, because you obviously have something over him whether he'd admit it or not.
Take that power and use it.
2006-08-30 22:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋