Okay I have a friend who has a boyfriend and they are always going out then breaking up then going out damn for reals they make sure everyone knows and it's starting to get on my nerves! She cries for him and then the next day they're going out and being all lovey dovey! What would you do if you were in my position? I mean when she's without him she's cool and he's cool but I cannot stand their weird on and off again relationship!
2006-08-30 15:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by MGM 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's providing TMI--too much information!
Tell her to slow down and not report each and every change in their relationship because you can't keep up.
And what about you? Why aren't you the star in your own drama/sitcom/adventure story? Don't you have a great novel you're trying to write that you can agonize over to everybody, or a world wide tour you need all your friends to finance, or SOMETHING? Your girlfriend is taking up everybody's social space, there. Get your own thing going on!
2006-08-31 12:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that's not what a relationship is. He shouldn't be treating her that way and needs to find someone better because she does everything and deserves. If they keep it up, just ignore them, and drop a few hints so they get the message that their on again off again relationship is getting really old.
2006-08-31 18:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Greta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her politely, that you love her, and you want her to be happy, but that all of her ups and downs are exhausting you. Let her know that you want her to be happy, but that you wouldn't mind being a tad less filled in on her status with her boyfriend. Tell her how you feel, and if you think that her boyfriend is dragging her down, and changing who she is, let her know. But be honest, and give her good advice. If after you talk she feels that she needs to kick him to the curb, support her as she does it. But if she still wants to be with him, you gotta support her there too... Your just going to have to grin and bear it.
2006-08-31 18:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Leonor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the only thing that u can do for your friend is 2 be there for her wen she needs it. however if u believe that the relationship is bad for your friend then i would say do not get involve unless really reallly necessary but keep your distance u shouldn't let yourself get brought down because of others lives!! good luck
2006-08-31 19:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ejilen_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tellin them to stay together or dont. they are only doing to make every1 notice them. they will stop after a while because no 1 will care anymore if they dont listen to u.
2006-08-31 18:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by red sox! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. You don't need to care about them.
2006-08-31 19:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by KSJTam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her and tell her to come crying to you when he really breaks up with her
2006-08-31 19:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by kissmefoolks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋