After moving his wife 200 hundred miles away.Do you think there is any chance for us..We have been having this affair for over a year now.When our eyes meet there is still an over whelming conection..Isn't the old saying"The eyes never lie"?Is there a chance that he is my soul mate ?
2006-08-30 15:33:31 · 51 answers · asked by Salley T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe so. He left his wife for you, and that's a big thing.
2006-08-30 15:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this; That the piper always has to be paid. So be sure that you are not the reason he left his wife for,as there will always be a priced to be paid.
And as sure as night follows day you will have a sense of guilt if you are the reason he leaves his wife. I hope you understand what I am trying to say!
I hope that he is your soul mate, but why not stop seeing him for a month or so and see how things turn out.
There is always the financial side of things to consider as well are you prepared to sacrifice your own money to be with him, because that what will happen if he does leave his wife and she files for divorce. The judge will more than likely take your earnings into consideration and you may find that you will not be able to afford to have the things you have now, especially if he has a family.
Oh I hate to play the devils advocate here, but you do have a lot to think about and you have other people to consider too in respect of hurt and anguish.
EDIT
I bet this guy thinks that all his birthdays have come at once!!
2006-08-30 15:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" I believe that when someone cheats, they aren't with the right person in the first place and they are too cowardly to make a move.
this guy still is being a coward. You need to find out why. Or, maybe he is trying to pacify you until he moves 200 miles away back with his wife.
This is not the psychic connection hon, wish as you might, only time will tell.
But, you have to make a decision right now, how much time of YOUR LIFE are you willing to waste before things go your way?
2006-08-30 16:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this thing of dating someone who's still married... once they are divorced yeah see how it goes...
A point I want to add here... how did you guys meet!? Was it in a chatroom/online kind of a thing!? At the office where you work!? Think of it this way- right now as it stands, YOU are "the other woman".
If things end like they have with his current wife... is this how you would want YOUR relationship to end!? Who knows what happend that this marriage failed (well they aren't DIVORCED yet tho either... keep this in mind!), does he just not love her anymore!? He get "bored" and then he found you!? Then there's HER SIDE to things!! For lack of not knowing the other side... I am just going on what info you provided.
I wouldn't want someone to do to ME what he did to/in his CURRENT relationship (married or not)! It's just not right!! (treat others as YOU want to be treated... do onto others???? (Ring some bells!?) & There's the others... watch how your mate treats waitstaff... How men treat their mothers/sisters!? Talk about a red flag!!
There's also another saying... country one at that (& I don't care for country music LOL!) "you're cheatin heart will tell on you".
As far as the soul mate thing... if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Don't rush it... there's more things to be done first before it gets to that part!! So, why play roulette with "chance"!? I would want more than a chance!
Take care of the issues at hand (most sounds like to me HE will need to do!) and after the time passes and the divorce DOES come to fruition, then more power to you both!
If things change.... "if you love something set it free... if it comes back to you it's yours, if not... it was never meant to be".
This is the best answer I could give you with the lack of details in your question. Not much to go on.
GL!!
=)
2006-08-30 16:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by tzbug_ybiaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there Is a good chance if you continue to be in a relationship with a married man yours and his soul will be mates in hell, have you not heard the preacher say, what GOD has joined together let no man put asunder, or till death do we part, and check out matthew chapter 19, and adultry is not the same thing as fornication, get a dictionary. why can`t you people find a spouse of your own, why go through life trying to take someone elses.His wife needs to get ahold of you and him, and show you a little of the pain the 2 of you are giving her.
2006-08-30 15:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by he "is trying everything to be with me? He is separated from his wife----not divorced. As for the "eyes never lie" ---don't believe it. There are a lot of manipulative players who are very good at looking deep into your eyes and making you feel like your someone special. I don't think he's soul mate material if he's cheated on his wife. Just remember, if he cheated on her, he'll probably cheat on you too.
2006-08-30 15:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no chance he is your 'soul mate'. He is a sleazebag with an eye to his own pleasure no matter the cost to anyone else, and you were an easy lay.
If he did marry you you would be miserable because he would immediately be having it off with someone else and telling you all the same lies he is now telling his wife.
For heaven's sake, how old are you, 12? Are you really so desperate to feel important you don't care how you wreck someone else's life? I hope one day he does marry you and then you will get what you deserve.
2006-08-30 22:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by TC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man is not free to be with anyone until he is divorced. A man that would start a relationship and still married would tell me that he might do the same thing to you. Also he doesn't take marriage vows very seriously. He may very well be in love with you and not his wife, but he is going about it in the wrong way. You are also wrong for going with a married man.
2006-08-30 15:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um could be, but did he move away, or did he come back to you. You could be in a dangerous situation, because what's to say he is your soul mate. But then he finds another soul mate and you get angrey and he and this other women kill you to be happy. What you have done it's wrong in a way, but I'm more worried about you getting hurt. I'm concerned with your saftey, did he really leave her, or is he lieing to you like he has lied to her for how long about you! If you honestly loves you, then he will come clean about you to her. You should not be a secret dear, just think about it, ok?
2006-08-30 15:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by prettyartisichuskey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving his wife 200 miles away, why so she would not find out about you two, or what, could be a chance that he could be your soul mate, but and its a big but hes a married man...........He needs to divorce his wife, and be with you, if this is what he wonts. You need to sit down with him, once and for all and talk things out...............
2006-08-30 16:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be. but why would you? if he is cheating on her with you what makes you think he won't cheat on you with someone else. Why do woman have to have married men. When someone becomes married they are out of the market. The marriage is a sacred vow. I think you should end it and tell him if it is you that he wants then he must completely end it and get a divorce and then pursue you. You should truely feel ashamed and realize woman should never hurt eachother, Good luck
2006-08-30 15:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋