I was in a relationship with a wonderful girl. For some reason, I left. She is all I can think about now. We were together for 3 years before I ended it. We live 80 miles apart now but were living together. I now have a steady job and steady paycheck coming in. We have started talkin again and now she is always askin me for money and to help her pay her bills. I do this without any problems. Do yall think there is a chance we will work things out or is she just after my money now?
2006-08-30 15:30:24 · 11 answers · asked by Southern Sweetie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think I know what she likes, and it's right inside your pants. Unfortunately for you, I mean your wallet. And I think you kind of know it, too. Tell her you have your own expenses to handle and you need to save. Close the ATM for repairs, honey. See if she's still talking to you after that.
2006-08-30 15:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. When you left, it probably put her in a bad way with money. So sure she needs help. But are you helping her because you want to, or because you feel guilty? And I agree with the others. If you guys are talking a lot, and doing things when you can (I know 80 miles makes every day out of the question) its one thing. If you're just sending her money, or driving there to deliver it, then move on.
2006-08-30 15:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's guilt-tripping you to get the money out of you. But that's just my first guess. I don't know the other details. I mean does she seem to take any interest in you for something other than your money? Does she want to visit? Does she only call when she wants money? So many questions...all I can do is give you more questions. Sorry.
2006-08-30 16:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's in it for the money. If she was after you, she wouldn't have went from talking once again to asking for a handout. She would have went from talking again to how can we take things further again. DON'T even think about trying to rebuild a relationship with her while you're giving her handouts. That's soo many kinds of bad.
2006-08-31 02:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want to spend time with you as well? If she doesn't want to spend time with you, and only wants money, then she's after money. If that is not the case, then you would probably know better than I would what she is after. Only time will tell.
2006-08-30 15:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's after your money, if she wanted to get back together with you she would make an effort to do so.
2006-08-30 16:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do want to help her for any reason, see if she has a job, for how long and sign a notarized letter stating that she will pay you back. I also agree with kkat!
2006-08-30 15:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're asking this question is because inside of you you already think it's because of the money, but don't want to admit it to yourself yet.
the moment the relationship became like this, it means its over. you have to be strong, and to accept what you already know. this way you will get over it sooner and find someone who will trully make you happy.
2006-08-30 16:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's after your money now.
2006-08-30 15:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Necole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and do not be a continued fool.. She is after money and that is all.. Your best bet would be to drop her and do it fast.
2006-08-30 15:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋