my husband told me that his biologicial father was named (bracie-james) but he never met him.he says that the man who raised him is his father and I agree.but I liked the name (bracie) so i asked my husband would he mind if i were to name our boy bracie,he said yes he did mind,but then we compromised and came up with (braceson-harrison)but now my husbands mother is mad because she says that we are going to name our son after my husbands bi father,but not true i just like the name.what do u all think.
2006-08-30 15:24:44 · 23 answers · asked by schazell j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ya bc u should agree on a name with ur husband.. and that name is stupid in my opinion
2006-08-30 15:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, for what it's worth, I don't like either names.
However, you do.
As a father of 2, one boy 2years, and 1 girl 6 mos,
The name you pick should be agreed upon by both you and hubby. It is your child, and choosing a name is both a huge honor and a extremely difficult task.
Other than your husband, no one elses point of view should matter. Once that beautiful little guy is born, no one will complain about a name...they will only embrace that gift that you have given this world.
Go with your heart, not your family.
***I am assuming this is your first child, a tip for the next child if you have another, choose a plain name and tell everyone that it is the name...but have a secret name between you and your hubby...it will make a nice surprise and it will be too late for opinions.
Good Luck AND CONGRATS!!!!
2006-08-30 15:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by woookin_pa_nub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 02:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you solicited opinions on this, I understand your feelings, but feelings can change. What is a given is that naming your child after your hubby's sperm donor appears to be ruffling the sensitivities in the psyches of your husband and your mother-in-law. You know, I can think of a lot better names than "Braceson." I mean, it's going to get shortened to "Brace" anyway, and, while that sound's okay, it can also sound like a crutch. Why not Bart? Everybody can relate to a Bart. Or if you want to get slightly esoteric, how about "Orion"? It's original and will get shortened to "Ryan." Just two off the top of my head. There are so many. Maybe you could discover you like a different name. Win-win all around.
2006-08-30 15:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should honor your husband and his family and choose another name. Put yourself in his place. If your mother wasn't around for whatever reason and your dad raised you, would you want your husband to name your daughter after her? With all the names to chose from in this world, chose another name that will fit your son. I wouldn't even name him something that sounds like that name.
My father-in-law was very abusive to my husband as a child. I wouldn't think of giving our future son his name. It sounds as though your husband's biological father may not have been someone to look up to because he was absent from his life. Your husband and his mom don't need to be reminded of him every day.
2006-08-30 18:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by GSDoxie3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you and your husband to name the baby. You are the one that has to live with it also you need to think about your baby, when he grows up, you need to think about what other kids are going to think and is this going to be a name that he can live with for the rest of his life. So it really doesn't matter on what other people think, you are the parents and have the say on what the name is going to be. GOOD LUCK congrats
2006-08-30 15:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by socuteandsexy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the name bracie or braceson is cute. If you like the name because you just do and not because it was his biological fathers name then that is great. The feelings your hubby and mother in law have are based off of past hurts. Those are feelings they need to deal with in time. If the name is too hurtful and may make them resent the baby or treat it differently because the name then maybe you should reconsider. It is a hard situation u are in. On the one hand you should please yourself on the other you don't want to name your child something that will remind your family of someone who hurt them. I would talk to my hubby and mother in law about it, if they can't deal with the name maybe you should save it for a later child or a favorite pet. best of luck
2006-08-30 15:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No sense in getting the family mad at you.Don't forget the baby will have that name forever, and as long as your mother-in-law is alive she'll never accept the name and may not accept the baby either, find another name you like , and keep the peace.
2006-08-30 15:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by rkd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you name your baby is your business. I think that Braceson is a nice name and if your husband agrees with it his mom just has to get over it. Good luck with your new baby.
2006-08-30 15:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just kick your husband in the balls? It would probably hurt less. There are a million names out there! Pick something different, think of people's feelings!
2006-08-30 15:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a good idea but forget what I think your life is your life you make your own decisions. Your baby will grow p to be called by this name remember this.
2006-08-30 15:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by Re15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋