He asked me to marry him and then recanted 5 months later. He claimed it was too much stress. I really love him or I would not have ever said yes.
2006-08-30 15:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by nevynsfool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you truly love him you would give him time. remember the marriage vows say for better or worst. practice them now and he will definitely want to marry you.
2006-08-30 15:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything yet. He probably loves you but is afraid of the responsibility. My husband did the same thing but, I told him I was moving on. He couldn't stand losing me so he said he wanted to marry me. We had a very happy marriage for years.
2006-08-30 22:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED LIGHT! This guy is probably a great guy since you accepted his marriage proposal. But something is definitely amiss. Ask him what the real reason is for calling it off. It may be something you can work thru, and if not, reevaluate your relationship. You may need to chalk it up to growing up and move forward with your life.
2006-08-30 22:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by marcy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you want. If you want marriage and a commitment then I would think twice about the relationship. But, if simply being together is enough then I would stay. Follow your heart and good luck =)
2006-08-30 22:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got pre wedding nerves at the last minutes. like you said you would have said no. Just say bye and move on with your life.
2006-08-30 22:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress is not considered a "deal breaker". You need to show him that you are willing to share his "stress" or help to relieve it.
2006-08-30 22:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! If he is having reservations now then it is not right. End it and find someone new.
2006-08-30 22:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he really means he does not like you , its not the stress thing its you
2006-08-30 22:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by DAVID G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you should stay but if you hate him then go
2006-08-30 22:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by O G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him hurt n wait.
2006-08-30 22:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋