what should i do? my sisters bf is into me, and trys laying the moves on me.. and i think hes a cool kid.... FOR MY SISTER....not me... but i want my sister to kno he is a jerk and a playa?! but she really likes him, and is always talkin about him...how should i break it in?
2006-08-30 15:06:58 · 30 answers · asked by Lexi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just tell her straight up...there is no easy way to do it
2006-08-30 15:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by sista 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell your sister what he's doing. If she really likes him, she'll really be sad if he sees HIM hittin' on YOU while she's in the bathroom or whatever. You know? Some guys can be real snakes and be with girls, then see another one they like and they dont care how they are related, sisters, best friends-they just follow their *you know what* where ever it points. Its flattering, Im sure to have someone look at you and make moves on you, but you gotta tell her-just say, 'he's a player, he's said things to ME when you aren't around and it makes me think he might be doing it to other girls too'. Then see what happens. She's your sister...you are only telling her to protect her, not hurt her. Good luck!
2006-08-30 15:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now this you have to be very careful with. Don't go to your sister, unless you got proof otherwise she'll think your trying to seperate them so YOU can have him. If I was you just plain yell at him when he lays down a move. Loud enought for your sister to hear if shes home. Tell him to stop flirting with you and to tell him you just don't like him. That will get his attention, and he'll think twice before doing anything like that again.
2006-08-30 15:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by (l)SR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what he has been doing behind her back!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also say that if he is willing to do that to her then he isn't a very good boyfriend and maybe also lying about other things also. I know she may love him but she deserves someone better. It is better for her to find out now rather marry him or something and have to deal with a divorce because he cheated on her. Save your sister from the long run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-30 15:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but your sister needs to find out on her own. If you try and tell her is could back fire on you. She might think that you are telling her this so you could have him to yourself or something, even though you don't really want him. Just be there for your sister when it all falls apart. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 15:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and if she doesn't believe you then a good old set up always work. Everyone has cell phones so just dial her number next time he is around and just let her listen in on him laying his lines. A dog will be a dog and he will go for the treat every time.
2006-08-30 15:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tonnett D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was really close to my sister I would let her know what is really going on and if she didn't believe me I would show her basically by setting her bf up. Let him know you are not into him when he tries to put a move on you and tell him to leave you alone.
2006-08-30 15:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by socuteandsexy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you have to tell your sis cause she is more important to you then that bf and I'm sure you don't want to see your sister sad she has to know now before she start loving this bf more and then that will be harder for her to brake up with him, its the right thing to do
2006-08-30 15:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by O G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two simple things you need to do. Turn him down and be honest with her. Worried about making her sad? You'll be saving her so much heartbreak later on in life. He'll try to have sex with you. Then the next girl. And so on. Tell her what's going on right now. It's the right AND best thing to do.
2006-08-30 15:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult about the situation dear. Tell her before things get out of hand. This is the kind of stuff that rip family relationships apart. Blood is thicker the water....
2006-08-30 15:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing he is a jerk.. sisters are special boyfriends come and go... it is sad she feels he is this great... maybe you could set him up somehow so she could see him in action.. let her know what he has been doing if she doubts it put a plan in motion..but be careful it doesn't back fire and cause problems between you and sis... let her know how much you love her and are concerned for her happiness down the road as well as for today.. Good Luck and God bless you for knowing this person for what he is...
2006-08-30 15:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by sandi4551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋