I have been friends with my best friend for about 3 years. I adore her. She has inriched my life. Recently however, she has reconected with an old friend and I have me pushed out of the picture. I know I should be happy for her, but I'm dead jelous. To make it worse, I'm too scared to talk to her.
Please, no sarcastic answers.
2006-08-30 15:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Daye C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's been going on for about a year. It's been really upsetting. She's changed so much and it's not the person I used to know. She's acting like everyone else and gets angry at me constantly. But I still want to be her friend.
2006-08-30 15:06:29 · update #1
Hi Daye. Advice is cheap, but here's a word from the heart for you to use or let go. I think what is happening is a transformation. She has become a different kind of person. But so have you. You are changing and growing in ways that she can not understand. She strikes out like a child because she is afraid. But you can not stop the transformation that is taking you both in different directions. You can not go back, so you will have to let her go. You are like a butterfly coming out of its cocoon. Now you need to be brave. Spread your wings and show some new colours. And learn to fly away from her to find the flowers in your next garden.
2006-08-30 15:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, im going though the same exact thing..except for my BBF is going to a different school...ive tried to save our 3 year friendship, but it seems like she puts no effort into it..so i finally gave up, if she isnt going to put some effort into the friendship then its over im done..time to move on
2006-08-30 22:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to plan a special day just for the 2 of you! Watch your favorite movies....eat your favorite foods....get her a present to show how much you care for her still. Also, you need to talk to her....good luck
2006-08-30 22:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to her now or u will drift away...and talk to her new friend get to no her to! maybe u all can be friends...i saw me and my best friend (for like 4 or 5 years but we kinda new each other our whole life) were driftin away and didnt do anything about it and now we arent friends like at all we fight! like she calls me lots of names now to and starts rumors! like im a s*lut hore so yea and lots more!
2006-08-30 22:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by ruffers11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think yall driftin yall just takin a break if u ask me if she really ur best friend then yall will neva drift!
2006-08-30 22:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by EMO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋