My guy's ex wife has an ex-aunt by marriage that he considers family even though she is not blood related to his ex or his children. She (aprox. 45) constantly calls him to fix things around her house. She has a grown son but, still claims that she has no one to help her. I trust my man completely. I know he loves me. I think that Im just jealous of the time he spends there away from me. He is one of those really nice guys that will give a stranger the shirt off his back. He doesen't know how I feel. Am I wrong?
2006-08-30 15:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by n v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd let him know your feelings in a nice way, making a contribution to help someone is one thing, but your concern of his absence, shoud be a warning sign to him, Family is the #1 priority, Ex family is not.
2006-08-30 15:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by R Dan Lord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you're feeling is normal but have you spoken to your man about this? maybe he shouldn't be spending so much time with them but just remember they have a good relationship. Don't try to break it up but let him know that you don't feel comfortable having him go over there all the time. Probably he sees her as family, someone who will have his back no matter what. Girlfriends come and go but family abides forever.
2006-08-30 15:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing one of the reasons you love this guy is his generosity. This woman is not his ex-wife or even his ex-wife's mother, she is simply someone who needs his help. Would you prefer he had no contact with anyone that he knew in his previous life? I think you are worrying unnecessarily. If you trust him as you say you do, trust his judgment in this.
2006-08-30 15:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you feel the way you feel and I would say you are the one with the problem. He has a right to help anyone that he wants to......ex or not. So, sweetie, get over it and get a life. Zip your lip and find a hobby!
2006-08-30 15:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not wrong.you have every right to be jealous.i understand completely of what you are going through. i am going through something similar. talk to him and tell him that your jealous. ask him to stop going over there.
2006-08-30 15:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by tazzgirl6983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a reason why they are ex's...you shouldn't be jealous
2006-08-30 15:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by sista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋