Ok I have this teacher but shes more like a friend nad i told her about how i feel at home and she was really concerned so she talked to the school counselor. The conselor want to know what i want to happen and she said shes will ing to get me out of my house i wanan go but i cant tell her that i wanna go to my teacher/friends house. waht do i do, heres the story:
Ok My mom adn dad scream at me all the time. They tell me im worthless and that they dont care about me. I feel unloved and unwanted there, and my counselor told me that amazingly this isnt teenage stuff what i explained was worse. She said she wanted to help me, and that se would talk to my parents but I think that that would make it worse, she also asked where id wanan go if she could get me outta the house,i cant tell her i wanan go o my teachers house,i thought that would be to weird but i dont get along with any other family member, My couslelor said it was emotional abuse that i was going through, what do i do????
2006-08-30 14:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My teacher told me that if things got too bad at my house like verbal abuse or threatening she would take me in.
2006-08-30 15:03:46 · update #1
well it mite make it worse for her to tok to ur parents n then u stay there so maybe u would b bttr off w/ur teacher
2006-08-30 14:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your teacher married? Has children? Single? You should think about this and why teacher would take you in. If she in single maybe you should think twice.
If a child protective services comes to investigate your house, your parents don't need to know who complained.
Someone needs to talk to your parents, they may not know they are abusing you - they may have been brought up this way too - are you the only child or other sibs in house? if other sibs, how are they treated and how are they dealing with it?
see if you can get some independent counseling
see if there is a Calvary Chapel near you - they have youth counselors & may be able to help & give advice.
2006-08-31 04:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the teacher that is your friend. Ask her if it would be alright if you stayed at her house for awhile. If she says it would be okay then talk to the counselor about it. If she does not think it would be a good idea you should talk to the counselor about if there are any shelters for teens or somewhere else you could say. Explain to her that you have no where to go, she should be able to help you. Good luck, no one should have to put up with emotional abuse.
2006-08-30 15:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Christinamk227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off let me say I am sorry you must go through this. Second, Pray for the Lords guidance. He wants and desires the very best for our lives and I know that includes you. If you listen closely to you gut instinct after asking for his guidance you will be shown what is right to do. I have never been in your shoes so I can't even imagine how bad it must be, but if you see the only option is your teacher then ask your teacher how he/she would feel about it. They may not be able to take you in there house or it may to awkward for them too. Hope this helps somehow but either way you go look to the Lord and if you don't know Him, Get a bible and start with New testaments, Mathew, Mark, Luke, and John. They will teach you of Jesus and his desire for you to be saved. also My church in South Houston offer free listening of our pastors sermons and he is GREAT. Check out this site to continue to learn more about God...http://mediablog.mail2web.com/soundbooth-lcc. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-08-30 15:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by usmcowboyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try having a meeting with your counselor, teacher and your parents. They may be more understanding than you think. Family counsiling can work wonders as long as everyone is willing to participate. If you want out of your parents house, I would think long and hard about it before you make that choice. Spliting up a family isn't always the best answer. Good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-30 14:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are but i'm assuming you are a teenager . do not go to live at your teachers' house .this would cause you and the teacher future problems .if you are under 16 yrs old you will need a gaurdian if you leave your home .if you are over 16 you can get board with a family or the counsellor will help you to relocate. if there is abuse at your family home you certainly need to get out of there .the counsellor is abliged by law to notify the police if there is sexual abuse involved . start with the counsellor , be honest about everything happening at home and let her/him help you get out of this situation as soon as possible
2006-08-30 15:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, did the teacher actually say that she would take you into her own home? If not, then I'd say maybe she is not going to do that... she just feels you should be out of your parents' home.
If they take you away from your parents, you will most probably go to a foster home. There, you may like it better, but maybe not.
2006-08-30 15:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should listen to your counselor they know best!!! and tell her how you feel
2006-08-30 15:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by cynthia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋