She's 19 and now pregnant. But her bf, many people say, is not a good man for he is boastful, e.g. that he is rich, blablabla while no one, even among his friends, knows much about his real job, his real life, including my cousin. Her parents do not agree since they don't like her bf and besides, an auntie of us proposed to raise her baby since she and her husband do not have any until now. While, this man is doubt to have good financial to even get married. But my cousin trust and love that man so much
2006-08-30 14:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by Sparkling pearl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not marry this guy. He might be selling drugs. No one knows what he does for a living???? The best idea would be to let Auntie raise the child and cousin the go to school.
2006-08-30 15:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is an adult and she should decide wether to give him the chance to be a father and take care of them. I was 18 when I got married and had my first daughter. It was rough but as long as you and the family try to be there for her she'll be alright. I wouldn't trade my kids for anything..my daughter is now 10.
2006-08-30 22:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is pregnant with his kid and doesn't know anything about him? I sense a previous marriage or committment . She needs to get all his facts so she can nail him for child support.
2006-08-30 21:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then your cousins should marry him.
She shouldn't let other peoples opinions effect her decision to be with this man.
She should follow her heart and nobody elses.
2006-08-30 21:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her life. She will do what she wants. She will live and learn. Hopefully she will make the right decision.
2006-08-30 21:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by slatey23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it to them to decide.. it is really not in your best interest to get involved. if it is not a good match then she will eventually find out. good luck.
2006-08-30 21:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this might sound rude but HELL NO.
2006-08-30 22:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-30 21:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋