I am 16 years old and every summer for the past 6 years my family has traveled up to Washington to see these close friends of our family. *Our familys have been friends for a very long time yet we are not actually blood related.* Now with that being said, their family has a daughter which I've always had a crush on. the problem is that I've always thought of them as family, but they're not really blood. I would really love to have a more romantic relationship with her *not just sexual* and we have gone to the movies together and I have always felt sexual tension. What should I do? Go for it, or forget it?
2006-08-30 14:36:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah..go for it, if anything you tried.
2006-08-30 14:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not family, so if you're not blood related at all and she's in your age group, it's just a natural thing.
Anyway, one thing you may want to consider is the fact that your families have been freinds for a very long time.
If you have a relationship that ends badly, your families would probably still remain as friends, yes?
Anyway, the point is that you may have to run into this girl for the rest of your life.
2006-08-30 21:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've known her your whole life, then you should be able to figure out a way to test the waters a bit before jumping in. If it seems like a go, then go for it, if not, why ruin a good thing. Of course, there's always the thought that you don't have to see her again for a year, so either way, you should be okay.
2006-08-30 21:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal in this situation for your feelings for this young lady to change . You have basicly grown up together , and your mind and bodies are changing . I would approch her and ask if we cantalk . Then ask her if her feelings about you have changed or grown in any way . You might be plesantly surprised , you probably already have warm feelings in this area . Since you have been so close for so long she will not want to hurt you either way , then you can get on with her , or part still friends and go on till you find someone who will return your love.. Good luck !
2006-08-30 21:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are quite a few things that could be against you here.. the long distance (thats a killer, I have been through that myself), what your families would think, and also how SHE would actually feel... like someone else said.. set up a pretend situation similiar to yours and ask her what she thinks about it subtlely.. if she shows any discomfort, dont push it. I think you can do it. :] good luck.
2006-08-30 22:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by ilovehermione918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problem. If your family and their family are as close as you say, I would think they would be happy to see to people that they care much about find happiness together. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-08-30 21:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it just make sure it does not upset anyone. Try to see if she is interested in you that way too maybe have a mutal friend to talk to her or another family member.
2006-08-30 21:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by blueseawale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G'day Hank E,
Thanks for the question.
I would tell her how you feel about her and see how it goes. There is no reason why you couldn't pursue a relationship with her.
Good luck to you both.
Regards
2006-08-30 22:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont go up to her and say wanna go out.start out by being her friend and see what happens thats all i can say.what do u think is right and when the time comes she'll think your a terrific guy and want to go out with u.so just go with the flow peace out dude.
2006-08-30 21:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by banana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, if you are that close, you already know alot about her her likes and dislikes, just make sure she feels the same way, otherwise it could be a little uncomfortable.
2006-08-30 21:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
befriend her, you have already initiated steps.there is nothing wrong if you will have her as your girlfriend anyway you are not blood related. good relationship starts with being good friends,its the foundation of love. g'luck!
2006-08-30 21:40:36 · answer #11 · answered by yfort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋