I awoke and found my cellphone gone. My girlfriend had taken it (after getting the bill and seeing a certain number I had been dialing too much) I called her and she was spitting fire, saying that she just got off the phone talking to , er shall we say 'heather'.
So now I am in some trouble . She also went through my texts. Oh yes she claims that she can look at my phone all she wants as it is in her name etc. I told her it is nothing but she wont believe me and says I am screwing this witch. Truth though , maybe some flirting but Nothing ever happened and will happen, so now how do I get out of this problem?
2006-08-30 14:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are in deep trouble, buddy, my best suggestion is to stick to your story. Do not ever change it, because it will make it worst. Best of Luck!
2006-08-30 14:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have to say that first of all you shouldn't be "flirting" with this chick if you have a gf. Your wrong to do so that's for sure. I'm not sure if there is a way to get out of this hot water you have put yourself in. All I have to say is a man doesn't flirt with a lady if he doesn't have intentings to on getting to know her more. Expectually since you have a gf already. So it appears to her and everyone else that you were looking to have an affair. If this is not the case and i'm not sure if this is but you really need to talk to your gf and explain to her. Say yes I was flirting with her but I nothing was NEVER going to happen. Not sure if she will believe you but you can try. Just depends how long you two have been dating and how serious you two are. I assume you are serious since she got you a phone in her name. Oh yeah can I just say how stupid that was on your part. If she can get the bill and see every call you make and notices a number on there more then normal and you KNEW that. Yeah kinda stupid.
2006-08-30 21:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bit of a problem - i dont blame her for going off - i would too.....
If there is nothing going on then 'heather' should have put her straight......
Id start by apologising, tell her nothing happened and u wouldnt do that to her.... be honest and tell her there was flirting.... honesty is definately the key here.
Best advice would be to stop talking to heather if you want your relationship to work - because your gf will be forever jealous and suspicious of this girl..
2006-08-30 21:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG!!! Uhhhh I think you should just talk to her and tell her that you would never cheat on her because you love her. Also that you don't need to have a fling when you have everything you want with her. That Heather is your friend and nothing else. Also that she has to trust you because love is based on trust and not defiance or jealousy. Ask her that if she would like it if you went through her cell and text msg. Trust me she wouldn't like that. You should try that on her so she can see how it feels to not be trusted. I wish you good luck and the best to come.
Ciao~
2006-08-30 21:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a girlfriend and you shouldnt be flirting with other women, she was paying for the phone and your time on it and you were talking to "heather" flirting when you should of been talking to her instead, learn some respect for your relationship and your girlfriend, hopefully you have learned your lesson on this one, you've lost some of her trust now and she probaly wont trust you like before but you just have to learn from your mistakes....
2006-08-30 21:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be a playa if you dont know the game,,, you got caught because you left your deck of cards face up for all to see,, you keep your info in the only address book thats confidential,, the area between your ears,,, no one can tap that ,,, better luck next time, but before you try make sure to reassess the rules of da game ,,,
2006-08-30 21:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have kept the phone locked.
But you have a much bigger problem... your "girlfriend".
From what you describe, she sounds insanely jealous...
and this will just escalate to more, and more trouble.
She sounds very manipulating... a huge pain in the ***.
Dump her, tell her to keep the phone.
Get out now... while you still can.
Good Luck.
2006-08-30 21:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, think you kinda screwed yourself in that one. Good for her, for finding that information. She has the right to go through your phone. If you are with her, you shouldn't be flirting with other girls. Learn respect!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-30 21:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you can Buddy & if u haven't messed around with her yet you will because it's going to lead to that. u obviouslly are missing something from your realationship or u wouldn't have crossed that path. so fix whats wrong or move on and be with this witch.
2006-08-30 21:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUSTED....................Stop talking to Heather and do a whole lot of sucking up to you're gf.
2006-08-30 21:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by T2SEXY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋