You know how in movies, guy slamming her against the wall, and during kissing, taking her clothes off as if he can't wait anymore. Do girls ever get that turned on? B/c my girlfriend isn't and she said thats the girls are. THey aren't harmonic freaks like us.
2006-08-30 14:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
they acually are but are thought to suppress their sexual erges by society and social institutions.
imagine a sexually independant woman asking you to have sex, and then your friend the next day. she would seem like a slut right?
2006-08-30 14:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by DaOgs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, women don't get turned on by the same things men do, so just because you find something sexy doesn't mean your girlfriend will. For most women, the biggest sexual organ is her brain. Seriously. If it isn't clicking upstairs, it sure won't downstairs. If your girlfriend doesn't get that turned on, it may be because she has other things on her mind, or she just isn't that interested. Try to figure out what makes her brain sit up and take notice sexually. Here's a clue - it isn't naked pictures, or raunchy movies that are made for men. Boom chicka bow wow and close ups just don't do it for us.
I read somewhere that men are more visual, while women are more about ideas. For example, both men and women get bored watching the same couple do the same sex act twenty times. The difference is, men can watch the same sex act performed by twenty different couples, and be aroused each time. For women, we are more aroused by seing the same couple doing twenty different acts. For men, the variety is in who's involved, while for women, the variety is in the act itself.
Also, the movie thing - slamming against the wall, ripping off clothes - that's agressive behavior, and men tend to be more agressive than women. I'm not saying it's wrong - it's just not the way we are. Remember, for women sex doesn't have to end at orgasm (at least not the first one). Fast is not the goal. The whole process of sex is important for women - not just getting to the end of it.
2006-08-30 15:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by swbiblio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think this is a man vs. woman issue but a personal issue. What I mean is that some people are really into sex and some aren't. I"m female and have a very high sex drive. But I've known more than a few guys who could not keep up with me and even a couple of guys who just didn't seem interested in sex at all.
So--it is just a personal preference. I really do not think it has anything to do with whether or not you're male or female.
2006-08-30 14:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to group women as a group when it is up to sex. Women do think differently about sex then men do. That is the truth. Men think about sex as their primal thought. Women think of sex as a way to calm the man's primal thought. The thing about relationships is that you need to find a woman that has the same sex drive as you do to be completely compatible. That is to say if your sex drive is high and adventurous, then the perfect partner would have to have a high adventurous sex drive too. If this is not the case then your life with this individual will be a perfect hell for you or her. Men can have low sex drives and women high sex drives, same problem.
You will find that if your girlfriend has a moderate to low sex drive and you have a higher one, she will tell you many things to keep you from having sex with her. Ask my first wife.
You will find that you will be looking else where to satisfy your needs. Everything else in your marriage or relationship will be good but the sex. If you are willing to live like that then be my guest. Well what your girlfriend is saying is you two are harmonic with each other as long as you don't want to have sex like the ones in the movies. She is not very adventurous. If you agree then you have found your perfect partner, as far as sex goes. If you like to see what adventurous raw sex is like, better find another relationship. As yours has come to a stop.
2006-08-30 14:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what's the matter with your girlfriend, because as a woman, I can honestly say that women are just as bad as men when it concerns hormones, if not worse sometimes. In fact, I got sort of turned on just reading your little movie description. Very hot.
2006-08-30 15:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls can get turned on like that. During certain times of the month (before the flow of the red river) a females hormones go crazy. You might be able to do certain things during sex that you can't do any other time. Like for me I don't mind my husband playing with my breast, but a couple of days before my cycle starts it drives me crazy if he just breathes on them. And there are other times when my hormones go completely haywire and I can't get sex off of my mind. Sometimes I just want to grap him and throw him down and "rape" him. He would be willing of course. At other times I just want to have sex for forever. Then my hormones calm down and once a night is enough for me. or maybe it's just me that's like that.
2006-08-30 15:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries_r_cream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women get extremely excited. It has alot to do with hormones. Sometimes its like the more (sex) one has the more
one wants. nymphmanics, is what women used to be called who
had very high sexual appetites. Sometimes your hormones are
lower and thats when you could care less.
I say if your hormones are raving, and you are with the right guy
then go for it. Just be discreet and safe.
2006-08-30 14:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by nemesis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can definitely be like that lol. But not necessarily every girl. And definitely not all of the time. And I think you mean "hormonal" instead of harmonic.
2006-08-30 14:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by kaitlyn.roberts 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girls are even worse than us. They just want to hide it from us sometimes. In the middle ages women were seen as the most philanderous and sex-craving. I don't think women are shy today either, look at strippers and pornstars. they just want control. Sounds like you didn't get a good lady, sorry man. No woman is worth a million bucks.
2006-08-30 14:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Matt Beezy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women can get like that, but a lot of factors are envolved (last time she has sex, how attracted she is to the guy, etc) , unless they are very horny, it won't happen as frequently as it does to men. Women's sex drives vary. Men not so much, they are either horny or super horny.
2006-08-30 14:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really , (i'm sure some are) but we need to be put in "the mood". If you slam her up against the wall ect ... ect... that should do it!! lol how come I can't get my bf to do that for me???lol
2006-08-30 14:36:24 · answer #11 · answered by leylu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋