Ive been married for 12yrs and have a 4yr old daughter.
I married at 18. My best friend has been dating his girlfriend for about the same time I’ve been married. He has a 10yr old daughter. Unfortunately my friend refuses to marry and has been openly cheating on his girlfriend for years. Years ago he fell in love with his mistress and never stopped seeing her. His family and girlfriend have asked me to help him since depression has overcome his health due to the thought of abandoning his daughter/girlfriend or his mistress. Since the situation has grown out of control. I have begun to council him. He is very hard headed and will not listen to anyone. I have two choices, convince him to stay or leave? I would rather see him finally let go of his temptations and move on with life, marry his daughter’s mom and help raise their child but on the other hand his girlfriend deserves a better man, she is just to dependant on him and is not strong enough to raise her child alone. Whattodo
2006-08-30 14:15:38 · 2 answers · asked by airfoxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't put the blame on yourself. You can't fix someone else's relationship. Encourage them to go to counseling. Try to be as good a support and friend while they are doing that.
2006-09-01 10:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what to do theres no qiestion about it you dont want to jepordise your own morlas because in the ned the truth comes out then you will look bad,you are better to convince him to leave his misses and daughter so he can continue his cheating ways perhaps you should tell her what he is doing because he will never change imagi9ne how much unprotected sex he is having does he have a disease could he pass it on to her,look into your heart and do the morla thing you know what needs to be done
2006-08-30 21:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋