Hey, I'm 16 years old & have been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now. I've been thinking a lot lately, if I should still be with him or not. Reason is, well for one he's kinda mean to me sometimes also he just doesn't seem like his real with me.. He told me yesterday that he goes by life as a liar..I asked him.."So, do you lie to me or what?" Of course he denied it.I don't know..I'm so fonfused! I love so much, but my friends have been bringing it up on how bad a bf he is..I don't if I should lisen to them or not..I mean I am happy with him..it's just, I guess they have made a few good points.. such as "yea you can find way better" & stuff like that..I don't even know anymore..Err..Stay with him???Or....not....I need some oppinions!!! Stay with a guy who is mean sometimes, but then times I'm madly in love with him? Or just let him go and find better..=[.....
2006-08-30 14:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I made a typo, They arn't nessecarly my "friends" my sister achually is the one who's been telling me all of this.....& I do think for myself..She's just been putting things in my head..So yeah, I can't help it..Oh, and sorry if my question doesn't make much sense..I'm so confused right now...A lot of you guys, are telling me to dump him & I can find better..& like "IM YOUNG, I have plenty of time & what not.." Well, I love him...Young or not..I don't think age should even matter...then again..I am "young"...Ha....I don't know....
2006-08-30 14:39:29 · update #1
Dear you are 16. You will have like 400 boyfriends by the time high school ends. You will go through so many changes. I settled and got married when I was 18. I met him when I was 16. I should have dated around more because we were divorsed within 3 years. If your feeling uncomfortable now wait till you wait till you are not sure. Then you will feel guilt and all sorts of stuff that you need to learn to deal with because you will feel it till you meet that man that makes your heart skip a beat EVERYTIME you see him and there will be no questions exept how to make him happier.
2006-08-30 14:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer or you would not be asking! He is making you seriously unhappy, so why would you want to stay with him? There are lots of nice guys who are not liars out there - find one of those and you will realise that meanness and deception are not the way to treat a person you love, and you must not allow someone you love to treat you that way. You'll fall in love a lot of times - all of us do - and there's always some pain involved when it ends. But it IS time for you to end it. Find someone who respects you, is not mean, and tells the truth. Even if you have to wait for a while before he comes along - you sure as heck won't find him while you're hanging out with this creep.
2006-08-30 21:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!! You'll find that you have to dump a lot of loser liars before you get to a guy that is grown up enough to be real. And if he's kinda mean sometimes right now, it will only become really mean all the time. At least that's my experience with men.
2006-08-30 21:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by captain weems 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go !! Your 16 not 47 !! You have your whole life ahead of you. Think more about your education. True Love will come your way! Just give it time.
2006-08-30 21:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its time for this dude to hit the road
2006-08-30 21:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by clubnitup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋