My two best friends are in the biggest cat fight and they are blaming me for EVERYTHING!!! It is really getting me mad. Neither of them want to be around each other. What do I do?
2006-08-30 14:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Hamster lover! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe because you don't stand up for yourself so your easy to blame? either that or they are used to having you run your mouth about things so they just assume that your telling everyone their business.
2006-08-30 14:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need a little bit more information contact me I'm on yahoo messenger on. Probably because they're just too confused. Since both of them are your best friend you shouldn't help either one of them though you should help the one that's right. But if you make one happy the other one gets upset. All you need to do is to hang with some other friends for now and have a great time.
2006-08-30 14:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In psychology, it's called triangulating, and your "friends" have just made you the center of their argument. Back out of their cat fight and let them face each other on their own. Without you to lean on, they will be forced to deal with the real issue, which is not you.
2006-08-30 14:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by seminarygrad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dont be around them. they are not best friends if they act like that. let me get in there own fights and you stay away from them and then you dont get blame. good luck and hope this help.
2006-08-30 14:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Don't take sides. And if they're blaming YOU for THEIR fighting, then it sounds like they aren't true friends after all.
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2016-09-30 04:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's much easier than blaming themselves......Don't let them get away it.......stay out of it and don't blame yourself......
2006-08-30 14:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Big T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a mature pair of friends and don't choose sides, stand your own.
2006-08-30 14:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them and mind yor own buisness
2006-08-30 14:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they r really inoeing these days ha
2006-08-30 14:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Loving_This_Time_Around 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋