ok... well there's this guy named Michael, and I really like him!! And well, I found out today that he likes me and that he was going to ask me out.... I'm not allowed to date ( no comments about that plz).... but I don't want to say no cause i still want him to like me......i dont know what to do!!!!!! suggestions??
2006-08-30 14:07:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
by the way, im 16
2006-08-31 12:00:08 · update #1
beg your parents to go
2006-08-30 14:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by riseymour1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SAY YES!!! and find a way to arrange it with your parents so that its like a hang out session at the mall or movies.. and bring a group of your other friends along... you dont even have to mention that u r going with a guy. Just ask your parents if you can go out on said day with some friends to see a movie (or what ever u r planning!!) I'm sure you would have a MUCH better chance.. what ever u do DO NOT say NO. he will totally think that u don't like him and u could loose him : (
2006-08-30 21:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by rad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, like you're in the 7th grade.... define what a "date" is to a 7th grader? He can't drive. You can't drive. Which means that you're limited in what you can do and where you can go... unless your parents drive you (or you take the bus).
At your age, dating pretty much consists of hanging out before school, at lunch and after school. Walking to class together and hanging out at each other's lockers.
He'll call you when he gets home or later in the evening. You might hang out together outside of school, but like I said, you're limited in where you can go.
You can really like him. There's nothing wrong with that. It's normal. But as for him asking you "out", you just need to tell him how your parents feel about "dating". They ARE still in charge. They buy your clothes, feed you and put a roof over your head. You need to abide by their rules, whether or not you agree right now.
2006-08-30 21:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be allowed to go out in a group. See if he would like to get together with some friends and you may be allowed to go out with a few friends instead of alone.
2006-09-03 20:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by ejtme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really like you tell him that you like him but your not aloud to date then you can figure way to maybe hang out in groups and venture off when needed you can introduce him as like a guy best friend and pretend to have no feelings towads him until you are away from your rents just treat the situatuions like friends at first you will come into a way which works best for the both of you eventually
2006-08-30 21:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by BINKbong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents. They make the rules in your house and maybe they can help you figure out a way to become better acquainted without getting disciplined at the same time.
2006-08-30 21:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're so stupid. Common sense. Geeze. Tell him straight up. Or who gives a rip about not being able to date. Just go ahead. But you better be smart enough to keep it on the down low fool'! I'm not mean. I'm just telling it how it is or should be. Shoots then brah. Chheeee! Lemmie noe.
2006-08-30 21:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may try ''courting'' it is alittle different than dating and more romantic i think, i donot know your age because not mentioned, if you are old enough try courting, if you are not try friends first until you and your parents are comfortable, then you may find that dating is or can be an open option. good luck.
2006-08-30 21:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by daryld m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you cant date but tell him you like him. if you cant go out have a 'date'
at your lunch period just the two of you
2006-08-30 21:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Binky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not to sure u chould say that u can be just friends for now then talk to ur mom about it good luck:)
2006-08-30 23:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go out with him when your parents arent around.But when you are out together for the first time tell him the truth about your parents so that he knows.He should probably understand.
2006-08-30 21:15:09 · answer #11 · answered by hip-hop-chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋