3 questions?

Question

why would a str8 person know so much about gay people(no offense)?

why are sandals on men considered gay at my school?

I havent dated a girl in like 8 years, why have i recently been atracted to guys. I thought you were born gay or goy or whatever?

By the way i'm 15.

Thanks guys and women.

Answer 1

Okay so First I want to know what 'goy' means becase I know it as a non-jew so I don't hink you guys are saying that!

Now knowing the gay community but being straight is perfectly fine! It is cool that someone is a breeder yet are allies (that is what they are called 'allies')

but the dated thing isn't important, but the attraction *is*, but you are doing the same thing that alot of people in your situation do, panic and rush for answers.

You don't have to froce yourself into a catigory, you are you, what ever you trun out to be most attracted to will be the same no matter what

now that born thing, I don't know if you should put money on that, but I didn't think I was gay until I had the same feelings you did (and around the same age!) it is normal.

hope it helped, but if you don't think so, just email me! I would love to help you.
~Roger

Answer 2

1) Straight people don't know anything about homosexual people. They just think that they do because a lot of heterosexuals believe that they are better than us.

2) Sandals at my school are considered gay also, but it doesn't really matter to me. But your right... why is that?

3) Well when I was your age I started to get into my homosexual mannerism because I just realized that I was TOTALLY attracted to dudes and whatever not. And before I realized that I must have dated like 20 chicks. I personally believe that people are born what they are, but... it might take people time to know who they are. They are born gay, but not born knowing that they are gay.

Have fun dude. Enjoy your years and god speed.

Answer 3

answer one:
i have friends of every orientation and just because you know a lot about being gay doesn't mean you r one it could mean you hang around some or somehow r expose to it on a regular basis my means of the unknown
answer 2
what something is considerd doesn't mean its right you can wear act and do whatever you want to reflect youself and if you get sterotyped so what you know who you are
answer 3
you are at an age where you what to find your place you may be attracted to where you feel the most safe if you may or may not be gay but you should make friends with differnt groups of people first and figure out who you are before you start branchin off on a love life

Answer 4

Your young so I'll be gentle. If you were dating 8 years ago that would of made you 7 years old, I know at this time in your life it seems possible but the fact is we don't start getting our deep feelings starting around 9 years old and getting even deeper around your age, so you may or may not be bi/gay and the reason why I say that at 15 (teens) we tend to experiment a little. Don't rush to judgment on what you are. Be safe and smart OK?

Umm to the person on this page who sent me email I can't reply it says you haven't confirmed your email addy. And thanks

Answer 5

3 answers, many str8 people now about gay people because they have opened up and accepted them and are not afraid to ask questions that they want to know about. second ? as a father of a boy about the same age as you i found that kids in school attach the word gay to alot of things and it has no connection to sexual preference. and lastly if you haven't dated a gilrl in 8 yrs that means you were dating at 7 .. just a little young to know what you want at that age. as far as being alot of people your age question whether or not they are. you you have a ton of hormones racing through your system right now. just follow your heart and it will lead you to the person you should be with male or female

Answer 6

People always think they know about other people but hardly ever do... In schools fades come and go, as soon as someone cool starts to wear sandles ever one will thats just school... And honestly no one is born only liking men or women we grow up and learn what we like and what we don't like and sometimes we change our minds on what we like and don't like that is just life all yea you are only 15 years old so not having a girlfriend/boyfriend is just being a teen they come and go..

Answer 7

1,2,3. correct.

so if you're 15, you say you dated a girl last time 8 years ago. So it means, when you were 7.

either you are getting the numbers wrong or...maybe it was a question. then, the answer is no, you're not 15.

anyways.
Question 1: to not know would be very ignorant. it's an active part of the society.
Question2: just a school trend for biggoting. they say its earrings, or wearing orange. anything is used.
Question3: it doesn't make sense

Answer 8

It's more that they *think* they know!

I don't know. Maybe they use "gay" to mean "stupid."

At age 15, stuff is just coming out. Why would you date a girl at age 7? Your mind is still forming.

Answer 9

#1... they are always watching us.. in a way they try to act like us..lol
#2. ever hear of the words "mandals"?lol
#3 nah... some of us are born to be queens others develop in time..

take it easy being gay isnt that bad...i mean there is worse..

Answer 10

The Leader,
Liar? Or just completely disconnected to reality?

8 years! And you are 15? So you didn't go out with girls since you have been 7?

Tell it to someone who believes you.