ditching me for the "popular girls". They are evel! I know they're playin her. They are pretending to be her friend i can just tell! She has always been DESPERATE to be popular and literally made it a priority of hers. I have friends who are true but... i don't want her to get hurt and i dont know what to do!
2006-08-30 13:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
just persuade her... if it fails, then let her learn through the "hard way." Eventually, she should realize that her best friend is you...
2006-08-30 13:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I know you don't mean it when you say your friend is a geek. It hurts when friends try to move in with a different crowd, but sometimes to be a good friend you have to let people make their own decisions. If the "popular" girls ditch her then hopefully you will be there for her. Popularity is an enticing thing especially when you're about to enter high school. Your friend is not trying to ditch you, but if you're feeling neglected suggest an outing after school to have fun and talk. Tell her you miss spending time together and hope you can still hang out. If she doesn't come around, it may be time to move on. If it's any consolation, you'll be the smarter one for sticking with true friends.
2006-08-30 13:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by M N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be completely honest with you, sixth grade is just barely the tip of the iceberg. Once you get into middle, and especially high school, you'll find that a LOT of people are totally desperate to get into the "in" crowd. That's what happened to a lot of my friends, and now that high school is over, I barely speak to anyone, if at all, from grade school.
The best thing to keep in mind, is that while your best bud might not be hanging with you, and while it's hurting you, letting it go is probably the best thing to do here. A lot of friends grow apart through the years, and if the so-called popular girls are just pretending to be her friend, you can point out to her that she MUST be popular already, if they're all clamboring to be her friend. ;)
2006-08-30 13:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do to convince her that the popular girls are just messing around with her head. She has to experience it first hand, then after it's done just say "I told you so" and she won't ever think about it ever again. If being popular is being someone you aren't, it's not worth it. Tell her that. There's nothing much you can do but sit back, remind her occasionally, and hope she doesn't get knocked down while shes climbing the popularity ladder.
2006-08-30 13:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that once your friend realizes the new friends are really like then she may come back to be your friend. If not, she isn't a true friend. And this is coming from a middle school teacher! Everyone thinks they desire to be popular and they find out that it is not at all what they hoped for. Now get to bed!!!! You have school in the morning. LOL!!!!!
2006-08-30 15:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in 6th grade ok! it is something that everyone wants at some point, the best thing to do is be there for her and when she finds out that they are not really her friend don't tell her i told u so. for the time hang out with ur other friends and see how long it takes her to find out that they are not really her friends, the way that u are really popular is just hanging out with ur true friends. try telling her that in a different way.
2006-08-30 14:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good, caring friend. that's rare today. but , sometimes you just have to let them find out the hard way. once my friend told me that my boyfriend didn't love me and that I was in for a big hurt, but I could not break it off, because I loved him very much. and while she watched me go through the pain of a loveless relationship, she never downed me for being weak or stupid. she only said that I would know when enough was enough. and when I did , she was there, with the tissue, her shoulder and her hand to pick me up. I needed her and your friend will need you. don't be afraid to be a real friend . you know that they are not her real friends, so just get the tissue and, if you can, wait.
2006-08-30 14:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is insecure with herself for this reason this then leads to being jealous. friends are meant to nurture, help and percentage with one yet another yet she is purely down precise mad and jealous about the way you latest your self. are not shifting into an arguments including her because you'll in ordinary words get your self dissatisfied and may be tempted to say nasty issues to her. it is strictly what she needs to commence something with you because she can not admit to you or to her own self that she is jealous of you and what you've. unhappy case. See how as time went through you're commencing to resent her? properly in case you do not end being friends including her you'll proceed having those undesirable thoughts and extra. And if she were to ask you why you stopped being friends including her the reaction could be that friends do not insult or be impolite and advise to at least one yet another so till she will understand what friendship is all about you could not be her chum.
2016-12-06 00:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well, ur right.... if some1 is trying to b popular, then there not popualr... I think that u should just ditch her cause if she thinks that being popular is more important than u, she's not a good friend, even if she is your bestest friend...
2006-08-30 14:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just started 6th grade to so.. you should just tell your friend that she deosn't have to be hangin with the evil cool girls to be popular.She can just hang out with her regular friends to be cool.One time i tried to do that i just got dissed so no mater how cool u are just be happy
2006-08-30 13:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good friend say nothing even when they ditch her just say nothing and be her friend that is what make you really popular when you grow up
2006-08-30 13:53:55 · answer #11 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋