Okay, so let's start from the very beginning. I met this guy last year at school named Kevin. He was in two of my classes. I had the biggest crush on him the whole year because we have SO much in common! We have the same sense of humor, we have a similar taste in clothes (comfortable, but still trendy) and we were both into art! So I asked my friends to ask if he liked me. BIG MISTAKE. He said Absolutely Not. I was heartbroken for about two minutes, but I think I still love him. What should I do?
2006-08-30 13:40:06 · 32 answers · asked by Peep 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Dont waste your time on someone that doesnt have feelings for you. We all have someone out there special waiting for us.. Go find the right man for you, he is out there waiting.
2006-08-30 13:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I' m in a similar situation as you I met this boy like two years ago and I swear on everything i loved him the first day i saw him but he just would not go with me for nothing i asked him plenty of times and he tries to leave or get off phone soon as i mention it the only thing that he will accept from me is my friendship so sometimes u have to settle for whatever there offering at the time ( not WHATEVER) but you get what I'm saying. until he realize how special you really are
2006-09-06 15:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, that's terrible if he said that, you shouldn't have asked your friends to ask him, his response was horrible and you need to take several steps back, the best thing for you to do right now. Trust me on this one, is pretend you don't care at all, just be very friendly to other guys and make him see that, but if he already said that, then it must mean he doesn't like you, in which case you shouldn't be persistent because he might end up hurting you, he may have a girlfriend. Did that ever occur to you?
2006-09-04 14:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by You are loved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are but I think possibly early teens.Boys Kevin's age sometimes are a little shy or embarrassed when asked a question like that especially if other people are listening.Maybe he doesn't know yet what he feels.Try to be good friends with him and don't ever tell your friends to ask him anything again.You have to let friendship and interests develope on their own.
2006-09-03 13:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ejtme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in similar situation and thought this guy loved me because
he acted like he was interested in me until i asked and he said
know that really hurted you know what i did i went over to my
mirror took a good look for a while . because im going to keep it real with you girl focus on yourself first and i know people
probably have told you this . you know what he is going to call
you tell him im busy or im getting ready to go somewhere even
if your not if you see him at school keep walking keep your head
up and dont act like your hurt smile he will eventually come
around but dont wait on him because your just wasting your
time trust me hes not wasing his time waiting on you get you
a hobby to past time go to the movies or rent some play some
video games buy some make-up put all that energy into what
your wasting on him and put into yourself you will feel better about two days trust me if you listen to me you will be better off
2006-09-05 17:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart broken for 2 minutes huh, You must have a big heart to get over that really fast. If he says he absolutely does not like you, let it go. There's nothing you can do unless you perfrom some strange voodoo on him tricking him into falling madly inlove with you. Sorry sweetie.
2006-08-30 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Or at least pretend to until you really do. You deserve a guy that's gushing about you!! You deserve the very best! This will pass, in time. Meanwhile, involve yourself with other things - try something new and meet new people. There's probably another perfect match just around the corner!
2006-08-30 13:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by ew bugs! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to him yourself instead of having your friends do it for you. Be honest and mature about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks. If he acts immature about it then you don't want him anyways, if he's honest and tells you how he feels, either way good or bad at least you know and should move on. Of course easier said than done.
2006-09-07 11:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by the red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this guy but then he's too smart and all that and doesn't really care about me and he didn't know i liked him until someone actually told him. He thought I'm crazy... but now I don't like him. I like Dylan and Cole Sprouse from the suite life of zack and cody. Well that's a different story , but my advice is get over it or if you don't want to then tell your friends that you like him.
2006-08-30 13:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by yumee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably lied and really is in love with you but wants to take it slowly.
This is typical of a guy to say that, which he means the opposite.
2006-09-06 14:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your freinds already know how you feel, so if he suddenly changes his mind they'll surely let you know. For now.... keep your options open. You're apt to meet someone when you least expect it who makes you forget this guy even exists. It's a great big world.....
2006-08-30 13:47:34 · answer #11 · answered by wrennightwind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋