I think the song "Lonely" was written about me. Can you help?

Question

I find it hard to make friends after being bullied for a number of years. I changed schools at the start of last year and it stopped for a while than returned. After standing up for myself a few times everyone backed off. The problem is though, I am left with no confidence, when I am already over weight with a speech problem. Because I already feel shy, my talking is made worse, and people think I'm stupid, even though IQ tests have proved I'm above average. All my friends live far away, and our group was split at the start of the year, because of this bitchy new comer. Now we barely talk to each other. I found this group where I get along with everyone except this one girl that is constantly giving me hate stares and putting me down at every opportunity. I don't see why she would be jealous of me either- she gets better marks, has more friends and also a perfect figure, even though I know her life isn't much better than mine. I also find it hard to make conversation with others after

being isolated for so long. I was always the last picked, the one that people hated with no good reason. I've always been rejected by males, and have been single for my whole life. There was this one time when this guy asked me out, but I said no, even though I really really liked him, but he was involved with the popular group, so I said no, cause I didn't feel like I would ever fit in. People used to call my house, just to mock me.

Also I heard this group of girls, ***** about me, and I've never had anything to do with them, so they don't even know me! My friends that I've had don't understand how I manage to stuff it up so badly, they all think I'm really cool, and nice, fun to be around, but its just not enough is it?

Answer 1

Only you can help yourslelf.
You have two small problems, besides the feeling of loneliness.
One, you are overweight, that is not a permanent condition, you can diet, and exercise to cure that.
The other speech problem, can also be cured. You need to find a professional, who could teach you how to over come that.
You stood up for yourself, with the bullies, so that proves you have what it takes.
So forget about the bit8ch that stares at you, she's not worth worrying about it. You are.
You are still young, and a whole life ahead of you.
If you put your mind to it, you can over come those problems, and then you can be the popular one.
Lots of famous people, movie stars etc, had a hellish time in high school, and didn't blossom until college or after that.
It can be done, if you really want to do it. You have many more years ahead of you, so change the song, toone that will suit you better. "Look out world, Here I come"

Answer 2

Hey kiddo, I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through. I wish I could fast forward you into the future where you find that all that 'junk' that happens in high school only happens because all those people 'bullying' you and 'ignoring' you are truly insecure themselves. You have to be true to yourself and protect yourself - don't let those negative thoughts into your head! Think about joining a club or a sports team (yes, a sports team), or even doing volunteer work outside your school Helping others (even if they won't help you) is a great way to make new friends and feel good about yourself. Once you feel better about yourself, you'll get that 'glow' about you and others won't be so hard on you. Hange in there... this isn't a forever place you're in!

Answer 3

hey u just need 2 chill.. no1 iz perfect.. people can b asshole.. i waz made fun of until i waz in 7th grade. then i stuck up 4 miself 2 these asses.. and they backed down.. when ppl bring u down.. they r just trying 2 make themselves feel better.. they have sumthing self consious they dont like about them so they bring other pplz down. i mean every has sumthing they hate about them selves.. and as 4 guys.. im not very pretty.. i just have a good and outgoing atitude and i tell them how it is.. and be a ***** and play hard 2 get.. being popular aint bad.. i mean u have alot of friends.. and who gives a **** who dont like u thats there problem not urs.. every1 has there own opinion of pplz. mi advice and just break out of ur shell open up 2 a couple of pplz and then ull become friends wit there friends and then their friends.. and ull have a whole circle of friends.. and if sum1 brings ur down tell them 2 **** off and get there own god damn life. and 4 the chick who gives u dirty looks well **** her too.. it aint nothing but drama wit whores.. so dont let ppl bother u.. sum r scared of getting close or hurt so just wait and ull get a guy just break out of ur shell and be u.. and u will be okay.. i hope this helps and good luck oh and if u ever want 2 talk just IM me.. missshelby11 peace

Answer 4

The only thing I can say is that,this too well pass. I know it sounds Liam, but once you in college it will get better. Just get into your studies. You might try a hobby. If people share the same interest,they are less likely to be mean.

Answer 5

Girl, every single one of us is Beutiful. Just exersice alot when u feel mad or lonely. It REALLY helps . REMEMBER dont lisen to the popular girls they are just tryng to make u feel bad.If u still have problems talk with some one u really trust GooD Luck

Answer 6

I know how you feel. drop me a line and we will talk.

Answer 7

omg... try going to new people.