I feel like a loser because this unpopular guy follows me around and pushed ALL my friends away from me. EVER since 5th grade people have asked me why he follows me (i'm now in 11th grade!!) My friends still talk to me but don't hang out with me anymore because he's always there. Even when I meet a guy I like, he drifts away because HE's always there. I feel annoyed because he doesn't understand that I hate being followed around by. I have addressed the issue to him many times but he just says "I'm not following you!" but when I walk away, he's still following me! I tried ignoring him but I felt so bad that he had no one to hang out with. When I make an excuse to get away from him and go to the girl's room, He will wait for me outside!! I hate it! I just accepted the fact that he was THERE. I have two years of high school left and I really want to get rid of him. But If I get rid of him, I'm afraid I'll be a loner since everyone has formed groups and cliches already. Help?!
2006-08-30 13:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know it sounds mean that I want to get rid of a friend that has followed me around for years .. I want to be friends but not like THIS. I am a girl and I don't want a boy following me around all the time because I have no interest in him. It's hard to tell him because he has no friends and is so sensitive! He has gotten too comfortable with me and doesn't even act like a gentleman towards me!!
2006-08-30 13:21:41 · update #1
I had the same problem with a girl. She made me look like a loser. I liked her as a friend and we had been friends for a while and I only had 1 year left of highschool and I desperately wanted to not be seen with her because I felt like she made me look like a loser. People were starting rumours that we were lesbians for god sake. So I told her that, and I told her that we can't hang out anymore, she took it hard and had to make new friends but that is part of her journey in this life and so was it mine, I made some new friends too. It was really unhealthy for us to be together all the time anyways and not make new friends so it was for the better. Maybe it was mean but you have to do what you have to do right. Tell this guy off, get someone you know to start making jokes in front of him to give him the hint like: 'So, where is your shadow today? Oh wait a minute he's right there. where else would he be?' Something like that constantly might work. But once you ditch him, you can't go back. Don't talk to him, if you see him coming go the other way and try to avoid him or even act like you don't know who he is. It will hurt at first but both of you will get over it. I am on your side and I know what you are going through, trust me you need to get away!
2006-08-30 13:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what started as a boyhood crush, has now developed into a stalker. if he 'push s' away ur friends, then something need 2 b done. dont talk 2 him at all. go 2 ur teacher, or some1 with authorty ,tell them whats been going on. ignore the guy, but b careful. if he s that infatuated with u, it s no telling what he will do. if need b, contact the police. this guys byound weird. as 4 ur friends, whats with them? if they were really Good friends they would nt let this nut push them away. find beter 1s. try noot 2 b left alone anywhere w/ the nut. good luck & b careful
2006-08-30 13:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by big foot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him in the nicest way possible that he is making your life miserable and if he doesn't leave you alone that you will be forced to pay somebody to "off" him. It's not your problem the guy is a loser with a following complex!!
2006-08-30 13:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by captain weems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 02:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, forget about the cliques !!!!
Be yourself, whoever that is and make friends who like you for who you really are. 100X more valuable than the fake ones.
Then decide. If you don't want this guy to follow you, tell him that , then ignore him if need be.
2006-08-30 13:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat lots of beans belch and pass gas eat onions and hard boiled eggs and when you talk to him get up in his face I would run like hell I know its not lady like but it works Trust me or just tell him the truth ya just dont like him as far as clicks they never last and some people just need to be ignored till they change their style
2006-08-30 13:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by wise.cracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he is your friend, that doesn't mean u cant tell him u want your space. you need to choose between getting rid of him & having no friend/having more friends or being nice.
2006-08-30 13:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried shooting at him not close but close enough to get his attention
2006-08-30 13:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of his leash.
2006-08-30 13:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋