right.... im in a relationship witha guy ive known for about 10 years..we started going out about 8 months ago and everything was great for a while but not anymore..when we are on r own its ok we get along fine but when we are out anywhere he starts!!... like last week he told me that he didnt like me, that he only said he loved me out of pity(even tho it was him that told me he loved me first,that he didnt want me and that he hated seeing me.. and the next day he was on the phone crying saying he was sorry!(i dont get it) we are back together now and i have forgiving him for it but i hate the thought ofthe next time we are out together. i feel i deserve better than this but i really do think i love him and i think he love me too i just dont no wat to do about it...help
2006-08-30 13:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by pamelarush1234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay....just listen to me, the next time you go out and this happens AGAIN, show him the way to the next train station. Tell him, "look, I think I've had about enough of this". 10 years is a long time to know someone, know their habits, dating habits, financial and overall life's habits. It's been fine up until 8 months ago BECAUSE you were just friends, but you added something to the friendship, you converted it into something romantic. I can understand maybe just going back to being the close friends you've always been, but don't complicate it. Seriously, someone can't tell you they love you one moment, say what he says in the next when you're out and about and actually be in tune with himself or you for that matter. This isn't about you at all, I'm sure. This is about him, about not be able to make up his mind about what he really wants and it's only enhanced when your out somewhere. Perhaps when you go out, he sees other chics and starts making internal comparisons. At this point you're cramping his style " I don't want to see you, I hate seeing you". Overall advice: Put a close on this romantic chapter, you're better off as friends.
2006-08-30 13:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by koorvetteken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it, once a guy starts disrespecting you he will keep doing it and it just keeps getting worst and worts, if you think you deserve better than that then go and let it come to you.
Think about what you deserve and what is better for you.
2006-08-30 20:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he does this continuously, take control and tell him that he needs to make up his mind. I mean no woman wants to wait around on a guy like that, at least not me!
2006-08-30 20:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Limegreen Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a short skirt and ask him if he love you now. if he says yes and start kiss you you tell him you have a headach see what happens
2006-08-30 20:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone "loves you out of pity" they don't love you, they pity you. Get your self-respect back and l-e-a-v-e.
2006-08-30 20:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure, he isn't a dime short of a dollar ?
2006-08-30 20:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i think you should let him go...cuz he's an "on and off " sort of guy...so yes i think you should let him wake up and find himself...
2006-08-30 20:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by jennyrox12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone that will treat you nice!!!
2006-08-30 20:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend.
2006-08-30 20:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is ashamed of you out side.i do not think he loves you.because if he does, he would not care about anybody.
2006-08-30 20:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋