i love my boyfriend so much weve been datind for 9 months and im still crazy about him, but i play basketball alot and it seems like he always gets mad b/c it takes up a lot of my time... but dont you think he would understand that right now more than ever i need to focus on basketball... im a junior in high school its a crucial time for me, scouts start looking right now! what should i do stick with basketball or not focus on what i have worked for my whole life(basketball) to make my relationship better?
2006-08-30 13:08:50 · 14 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Sports ➔ Basketball
He needs to understand that you've been dedicated this for longer than you two have been together. It can help you a lot for your future, in your case getting a scholarship to college, which is an amazing opportunity. You shouldn't give up on something you've worked so hard for, and your boyfriend should know that. Don't let him make you feel bad about not giving him enough time.
2006-08-30 17:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally you would try to find someone that shares your interest, someone that plays sports (I personally love basketball *hint*hint* jk) You should definately stick with basketball, if you're good enough to be checked out by scouts then he should understand that it's a huge deal. If he doesn't that just means he's selfish and that it wasn't meant to be. All in all stick with basketball, it may or may not be your future career but it'll make reaching it that much easier.
2006-08-30 13:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by DJ Scratch N Sniff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to stick with basketball even if your boyfriend does not approve of you playing the sport. If your boyfriend does not like you playing basketball because it takes up too much time, I suggest you find someone else who will support your game and has a passion for basketball.
2006-08-30 13:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Knowledgeable VI 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with basketball. It makes no sense to blow off your future on an unsupportive relationship that probably won't last after high school anyway. Some people will always want more no matter how hard you try. You don't want to end up losing both.
2006-08-30 13:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may or may not understand, so there is a chance if you keep doing basketball he'll break up with you. But I would stick with basketball and try to do my best to make him understand! But it really is your choice and nobody can make the decision for you.
2006-08-30 13:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ash Nickel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a chance to play bball and get a FREE education instead of posssibly getting pg and having to raise kids on a low income, missing ou on so many activities, NOOOO BRAINER
2006-08-30 13:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Hooty7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl follow your dreams and dont let anyone get in your way cause the way i see it is if that person cares about you then they should be the one pushing you to accomplish your goals in life. Do what you think is best for you but remember that you only get one shot and dont miss this chance to show your skills cause opportunity will only come knocking once in your lifetime.Bfs come and go
2006-08-30 19:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
play bbal. you answered you own question when you said
"not focus on what i have worked for my whole life(basketball) "
you knew what you were going 2 do you just wanted some1 2 tell u 2. you were always going to play bbal
2006-08-30 13:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by red sox! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basketball cuz if he doesnt understand ur bball dream then u need to find somebody who does! i would go w/basketball!
2006-08-30 13:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only get to play bball in high school once.
All I can say is play ball.
and TALK ON DEFENSE (girls should be good at that)
2006-08-30 15:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋